I really need some advice on my relationship.

[SldOfFtn]

I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I was away for a year in the military and when I came back after basic we first made love.

 

After that, for a while things were great in that aspect. Everytime I came up to see her during the few days I had to be up there we made love at least once.

 

After I was medically discharged from the military I moved back up to her hometown when she started college. I worked for a while and stayed with her a lot before I started college myself. It was about that point that things started to get a little odd.

 

She didn't want to make love as often. She wouldn't even get very cozy with me either. I noticed that she started flirting with guys online a lot. Many of them being in a 20-mile area of her college. I just got very confused.

 

She has told me she is afraid of getting pregnant, yet we use two forms of protection at all times. Even with two forms of protection she would still prefer to have me finger her or her to finger herself. Most of the time she is the one to do that to herself. She also doesn't seem to be as interested in pleasuring me anymore.

 

What is going on? Why are things like this? Is it me? What should I do?

[Cwazydude]

Whoa, umm, Alright, Too much information.

 

Anyway, Its not just you, I think she's cheeting on you as well.

[Zaira]

It sounds to me like she preferred the "long distance relationship" thing. Maybe because it allowed her to be with others, who knows?

 

Very selfish if you ask me.

[SldOfFtn]

so you believe she is cheating on me?

[Cwazydude]

Yep

[girlfriend1]

She is me, and no, I was not and am not. I am however a bit pissed off that he would go to you instead of me to discuss such intimate matters.

[girlfriend1]

I am she.... I was not and am not cheating and just happened across this topic posted by my supposedly honest bf... Im kind of pissed off that he posted on a forum rather than talking to me about such intimate issues.