Jayyy Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 So I met this guy in a summer class. The class ended recently and I texted him 2 days ago asking if he got his grade for the course because I had not received mine. In the class, we were just friendly. Hardly a friend but always very nice to each other. We would always ask each other about material from the class. Anyway he answered me saying he got his grade and that simple statement that could've ended right then and there turned into a ALMOST 4 hr text conversation! It was our first real conversation since I met him! There's nothing I would call "flirty" from the conversation but he seemed interested and was asking questions about me and my life. There was some silly, joking around as well. He then got busy and I guess forgot to text me so he texted me in the evening that day apologizing for being a horrible texter, stating that he lost his wallet and will text me when he gets some time. It's the 2nd day now and he hasn't texted me anything. I'm just kinda anxious that he hasn't said anything since he seemed interested in talking and I thought things went well. I should also mention that he has a girlfriend (unless they've broken up without my knowledge). I knew he had one while we were taking the class so I lost hope. His random text conversation surprised me. Am I over thinking this? It's too early to say whether there is a romantic interest behind this but even my friends think he's definitely interested in talking to me. Any thoughts guys?
ExpatInItaly Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 Yes, you're over-thinking this. i don't sense a romantic interest at this point. And if he has a girlfriend, why would you even consider it? 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 Oh my goodness, here we go again...he HAS A GIRLFRIEND! What are you thinking?!? If anything, he was just being polite and friendly, nothing more to read into. So the answer to you question is YES, you are definitely overthinking things. Tread carefully. 2
Author Jayyy Posted August 4, 2016 Author Posted August 4, 2016 guys I'm not trying to break them up!! I feel pretty weird about this myself. I was just asking if he's going to keep texting me or not. It was just unexpected to me. I don't wanna break anyone up or "steal him". Im not that type of person!!
Michelle ma Belle Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 guys I'm not trying to break them up!! I feel pretty weird about this myself. I was just asking if he's going to keep texting me or not. It was just unexpected to me. I don't wanna break anyone up or "steal him". Im not that type of person!! That's NOT how your post came across at all. If you don't want to break them up and that's 'not the kind of girl you are' then why are you investing so much energy into thinking about if/when he'll respond, never mind posting a question about about it??? That does not come across as someone not looking for trouble, even subconsciously. 3
HumanMachine Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 guys I'm not trying to break them up!! I feel pretty weird about this myself. I was just asking if he's going to keep texting me or not. It was just unexpected to me. I don't wanna break anyone up or "steal him". Im not that type of person!! Why post in the dating section then
leogirl876 Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 That's NOT how your post came across at all. If you don't want to break them up and that's 'not the kind of girl you are' then why are you investing so much energy into thinking about if/when he'll respond, never mind posting a question about about it??? That does not come across as someone not looking for trouble, even subconsciously. Agreed with this post! Why would you post what you did, asking if he has romantic interest if you're not interested? Please don't get flirty with a guy who has a girlfriend! Would you like it if another woman did that to you and your boyfriend???
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