sunrise24 Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 (edited) Hey everyone, first post in 9 months; I've ventured into new territory and am curious about helpful guidelines moving forward. Background: (I have been a Uber driver for the past 8 months.) March 14, sometime before 5AM: My first Uber request was from a residence not far from where I was living; unlike almost every other trip, this turned out to be a request to fetch cigarettes from the local convenience store. The account holder tipped me generously, as she promised. She emphasized that the Mercedes in the driveway is hers and is paid for, and I also learned that she has a daughter. She insisted that we exchange numbers, we parted with a hug, and she kissed me on the cheek, with the parting words "I'm single." June 7, just before midnight: She texted me: "Are you driving?" I responded in a timely fashion. She mentioned that she needed to put her daughter to bed, and then she phoned me. We talked on the phone for 20 min, which ended with her asking: "How soon can you get here?" June 8: We met up in person shortly after midnight, for the 2nd time ever; this time, she invited me inside her place. She decided to pour us some wine and put on a movie. I had only one glass, and she had considerably more; buzzed but not drunk. While we were on the couch together, she started making out with me. It essentially became a Netflix and Chill session; we were focused more on making love to each other than watching the movie. I forced myself to take a bathroom break after about 2 1/2 hours passed; I was that aroused naturally. After my bathroom break, the lovemaking continued, and she escalated it to foot worship, then having me fondle her breasts, then having me finger her, and giving me a blowjob as well. After ~7 hours total had passed, we took a short nap, and when I woke her up, we resumed our lovemaking at her insistence. Eventually, we parted to get back to our own routines. Near the end, she mentioned: "It's so hard to let you go." Later in the day, we texted back and forth. At one point, she was panicking, and mentioned: "There is one thing that would make me feel better. Can you stop by soon?" I replied that I couldn't. Then, her texts started becoming more intimate, starting with "drive safe hot stuff. You are in my thoughts." That evening, she texted me: "Hi cutie, watcha doin?" I mentioned that I was headed back home, and then she texted: "Well, it's official. I want to play with you again." Several more intimate texts followed over the course of the evening. Morning-afternoon of June 9: I woke up to a text from her: "Good morning handsome" After she dropped off her daughter at school, I went over to her place. She greeted me, naked, having just taken a shower. After I took the hint and all my clothes off, she initiated sex with me, taking my virginity. I gave her 2 orgasms. She also mentioned that she had never before had sex with a male virgin. Even as she was later starting to answer emails & texts and make phone calls, for work, she was still naked and wanting to make love. At one point, she mentioned "I really need to get to work, but I'm so distracted," to which I replied "More than anyone else, you are distracting yourself," in reference to her intimate desires. Eventually, we did part, because I also wanted to get back to work. Unlike the previous day's get-together, she was sober this time. My take: such an escalation of passion wasn't just the alcohol. ~~~ We haven't seen each other since, but we have remained in contact and retained much of our intimate language with each other. Recently, I expressed my desire for her to be a part of my birthday celebration. She mentioned: "I would like to celebrate your birthday for sure. Let's try to plan the event you have in mind and I will get a sitter." I replied: "Get a babysitter for your daughter and surprise me. :)" She then replied: "Let me see what I can find. :)" Relationship dynamics factsheet: > I'm 28 and she's 40. > She started having sex when she was ~15. > She has a 5-year-old daughter, whom I have not met yet, and she loves talking about her. She calls her daughter her angel. I enjoy asking about how her daughter is doing. I don't know if her daughter knows about me yet. > She is the only parent; apparently, the biological father is not in the picture. I don't know what happened; haven't asked. > Her daughter goes to school year-round; it's the only way she can work and the only way our get-togethers have been possible. > She recently started a new job; she currently works on weekdays; weekends are focused on time with her daughter. ~~~ What are your thoughts on the relationship dynamics between me and this single mom? What would you do moving forward if you were in my situation? Bonus if you've had similar experiences, from either my perspective or hers. As always, feel free to ask any questions you may have for clarification or additional helpful info. Edited August 4, 2016 by sunrise24
Art_Critic Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 Make sure you always wear a condom, she seems a bit off... My take on this is that you are not the first Uber driver she has hit up this way.. she is using Uber to find dates and have sex... The 5 year old coupled with the age difference and the odd mentioning that he car is paid for makes me think you are just a boy toy... If you can handle that then live it up, with condoms of course... 1
Bialy Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 It sounds like you're trying to figure out if she's fun crazy... Or crazy crazy...
losangelena Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 I drove for Lyft for four months. I would never have accepted the advances of a passenger like this. To me, it's highly unprofessional. Imagine what will happen if things between you go south and she complains to Uber about you? Bye-bye, rideshare driving. 1
CarrieT Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 She doesn't want to spend your birthday with you. She wants you to service her and be at her beck-and-call when she is horny. Don't expect anything else from her and - yes, please - wear a condom. You are not the first and you will not be the last. If you were riding bareback before, get checked for STDs. 2
O'Malley Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 I drove for Lyft for four months. I would never have accepted the advances of a passenger like this. To me, it's highly unprofessional. Imagine what will happen if things between you go south and she complains to Uber about you? Bye-bye, rideshare driving. That's what I was thinking. A friend of ours drove for Uber and was hit on by a few customers of both genders. Not a smart idea to get involved with a customer that can low rate you or make a complaint that will immediately get you deactivated. If OP is still interested, like others have already said, use condoms, get screened for STDs, be extremely discreet and expect this to be of a transitory nature.
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