Punchkick Posted August 3, 2016 Posted August 3, 2016 Hello all! I have posted here before in regards in my split with my ex. It's been about 8 months I think? Things are great. Anyway for a small back story. We broke up last November but still would talk, see each other and have sex. That stopped in December. Started No contact December 14. Never broke it until she did 3 months later(March). I told her to leave me alone and never contact me again. I met someone in April, She was cool but it didn't last long. Maybe a month. It ended in June. I noticed I didn't really have strong feelings for her. It wasn't the same intense attraction I had with my ex. I am seeing someone else now who's completely something I would never consider dating. We are just super opposite but I am enjoying it, But again it lacks that same feeling. My question is to anyone that has experience, is this normal? I can't seem to feel anything for another girl and even if I do it's not strong or doesn't last longer than a few weeks. I'm over my ex. Never contacted her, never looked her up and I truly could care less if she's alive or dead. But why can't I feel anything? is it as simple as because I just haven't met the right one? Thank you all!
Mrin Posted August 3, 2016 Posted August 3, 2016 Absolutely have. Though for me, the space clearing happened when I went NC and told her that I needed her out of my life. It sounds like that didn't happen here. So a few thoughts for you: 1. Time. You need more time. Time heals everything. 2. Maybe you just haven't found the right lady yet. Sure they sound good and fun but neither of them may possess that certain quality that obliterates the memory of your ex. Best of luck! Mrin
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