Isittolatenow Posted August 3, 2016 Posted August 3, 2016 Me & my ex split in April. He relocated for his job, we were 350KM apart. It was a good relationship. Since we split, he's been close to me 4/5 times, we've got together each time. Few drinks, food, catch up. It's not great, but we both have feelings for each other still. Anyway. We hooked up last night, when we're together we act like a couple. Kissing, very touchy feely etc. This morning I've text him and got a very standard response back. (Hope your appointment went well xx then have a good day xx) last night he asked me to stay with him, he asked me to go visit him again, when I mentioned I'd be close to him on vacation he offered me to stay with him to break the journey up etc. I'm pretty sure he's messaging at least one other woman. We agreed to this arrangement as neither of us were seeing anyone & it works. I don't want to be one of numerous women he's giving that same sh*t too. So my question is, do I text him, say if you're messaging other women then I'm backing off. You deserve to make yourself happy and if any of them can give you that you deserve to take it. Or do I just back away, cancel our plans and forget it all. We've been best friends for almost 15 years. I don't want to lose him, but I can't take being one of 3/4 women he's messaging at the same time.
CarrieT Posted August 3, 2016 Posted August 3, 2016 Listen to your Spidey Sense. You are being used for sex and since he doesn't live near you, he is probably seeing other women and may - in fact - already be in another relationship where he lives...
Author Isittolatenow Posted August 3, 2016 Author Posted August 3, 2016 We agreed to tell each other if either of us was starting to see someone, that was part of the arrangement. But I can't bear knowing he's texting other women, because it's actually nothing to do with me anymore. We just agreed to hook up when we were close to each other.
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