Block ex bf everywhere after he dumped me. Why is he so upset? Any thought?

[littlemiss_Sunshine]

Ex bf dumped me over text about 9 weeks ago and I blocked and deleted him right away. (what do you expect when you dump someone?!?) Pretty sure I didn't get to read other messages he perhaps wrote to me as well.

 

The plan was that he wanted to meet in person and ended it but i could smell it coming so i told him to tell me a bit over message first then we can talk in person if further more. Of-cause when i saw he wanted to break up I was broken and hurt despite what I had have to keep up with just to be with him because i loved him. I was hurt / damaged in the process and he was the first guy i had sex with. Early of our dating he was the one after me for a few months before i let down my guard. We had been through many ups and downs and share deep levels.

 

During the relationship he drove me crazy and i also caught him cheating by talking with other women inviting them out etc. He never knows i know bout this. So I was pretty hurt and really sad enduring that quietly on my own.

 

When he told me he wanted to end it. I told myself that I did my best and obviously it was not enough to make him love me so I would go. And honestly i was hurt way too much to have any kinda contact whatsoever. I needed to move on. I needed to save myself

 

He found out i blocked him everywhere and got really mad sending me abusive email n followed by apologizing email after 2 days of that text.

 

It has been about 1 month n more and every week I got his email its the pattern of angry and blunt n apology over it. All if them mention about '' MEETING UP' that he wanted to talk. His emails don't sound like he wanted to get back. It sounds angry or rather blunt and focusing on meeting up to talk in person.

 

What I don't understand is that,, he wanted me out of the picture. it was his call and i left, right away. Perhaps not in the best way since i just gave no reply and cut all contact, but he got what he wanted/needed. Why weeks after week still so persistent on having the "TALK" when the result is the same, "END"

 

However, It doesn't make sense to me. I rly am confused and he seemed mad as well for the fact I just left n never said anything back. Its been a month and more and still got emails which I have NEVER responded. I still share feeling so it doesn't make it any easier to move on when i hear from him.

 

What is he thinking?

What does he want? and

Why the heck hes angry when its his choice?

[PegNosePete]

He found out i blocked him everywhere and got really mad sending me abusive email

How could he email you if you blocked him everywhere? Block his email too. Or redirect it to your SPAM folder.

 

What is he thinking?

What does he want? and

Why the heck hes angry when its his choice?

It is very unlikely you will ever get a proper answer to these questions. The best answer you'll get is, "he is an irrational person and he is acting irrationally". Irrational people do irrational things, and trying to understand the reasons will just drive you insane and drag you into his stupid games.

 

Best to just block him - properly this time, including emails - and move on.

[ExpatInItaly]

Because he's ego-tripping.

 

This guy is clearly a jerk (evidenced by his disloyal behavior) and probably is mad now that he knows he doesn't control you.

 

Don't bother trying to make sense of it beyond that. You won't be able to, because you sound like a kind, rational person - he isn't.