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Should I tell her that I dated her co-worker?


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Hey, so I started talking to this girl on gacebook,. I like her, and I think its mutual. We are probably going to go out together in a couple of days. When she told me where she works I realized that I went out once with her co-worker. It was just one date, and the girl was very rude and basically a bitch. So after that date I just ignored her texts. I dont know how close she is with the co-worker but ist a small shop, so they probably talk. I just dont want that the girl from the date will put me in a bad light in front of the new girl because I ignored her after the date. So should I be proactive and say something before the girl says something? (which she might not even do). Or should I just wait and see what happens?

 

Thanks.

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I think yes. If the two of you go the distance, it's going to come out anyway.

 

Wait till the topic of her work comes up again and throw in "I went on a date with someone from your company once. It didn't work out" She may well ask who it was and be honest. Just try to keep your opinions on the previous girl discreet.

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No, as a man you don't explain yourself or your business to no one.

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