wombat31 Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Ok so I dated this girl over this summer program we had together at my college. We knew it would end once the program ended so that way we could still be friends. Here's my issue though and I want to know if I'm being a jerk or not. The day she got back to her home town she texted me that she got there safe and sound. I texted her that I was glad and said she was probably exhausted. Then the day passed with no response and I decided to text her a simple "Hey" the next afternoon with no response. Then the third day I texted and said "Hey, hope you are having fun with the friends and fam" and in an immediate text I told her that I credited her as the person who helped me come up with the name for my song and when she gets a chance she should listen to it. Finally, I figured since she was on Facebook at the time late that night I figured I would ask if she got a chance to listen to it. We had a very short chat ending with me asking a question. The question isn't important but this will give you an idea of what I'm sorta dealing with. Was I being too much? How long should I have waited? I figured a day would be fine but idk. I kinda feel like a jerk. She said she was at her camp so I figured maybe she was too busy? Then I must've made it worse by talking to her through chat. I guess what I'm asking is, am I being too much or is this her coping with not dating? I mean frankly I don't think she cared all too much but I'm just not sure and if she never wanted to talk to me again or something I would appreciate it if she just flat out told me instead of me having to figure it out for myself.
Nowty V Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Drop it and move on with your life. Forget about her. Anything else you do is just plain immature.
sugarpuss Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Agreed with the others, move on. She can contact you if she wants to. But don't get your hopes up.
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