mandylev Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 (edited) Hello everyone, I am very confused and suprisingly quite hurt. I met this nice guy about a month ago at a bar. We hit it off right away, we are both expats in Europe. We had really good conversations and exchanged numbers. About a week later, we met again with his best friends and colleagues watching a game. We bonded and talked, had so much great conversation, kissed etc. It was an amazing night. He was going on vacation the next day for 3 weeks but he said that once hes back, we should grab a drink. So, hes gone on vacation abroad, I dont hear from him much. Then a few days before he comes back, he adds me on facebook telling me he is back tomorrow. We chat very briefly then he suggests we meet on the weekend if I am free. I tell him yes, sounds great and suggested a location. (this is Thursday of last week). He hasnt opened my message and I can see he is rarely active on Facebook. Afterwards, yesterday.. I asked him how his weekend went. Again, he doesnt open my message and I havent heard from him for nearly a week now. I just dont understand what happened. Even if he cant see my message for whatever reason ( he doesnt have the messenger app)- he has my phone number. Do I just leave it? Do I try contacting him via phone text? I am really hurt because I really thought he was a genionely nice guy and that we connected. As much as I am starting to come to the hurtful conclusion that he might have ghosted on me, I want to believe that something came up? Maybe naive. Would love any advice. Thank you Edited August 2, 2016 by mandylev
preraph Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Just wait and see if he turns up. He probably has more than one woman he's interested in for starters. And if you do all the work, he has no reason to try. So just wait and be prepared to move on. If he turns up way late, call him out about it. Don't just pretend not to have noticed. 1
DramaInPajamas Posted August 3, 2016 Posted August 3, 2016 Just wait and see if he turns up. He probably has more than one woman he's interested in for starters. And if you do all the work, he has no reason to try. So just wait and be prepared to move on. If he turns up way late, call him out about it. Don't just pretend not to have noticed. I had a guy pop up again and I didnt call him out or ask him anything. Perhaps I should.
smackie9 Posted August 3, 2016 Posted August 3, 2016 Oh good lord, if the guy was THAT interested in you he would have communicated more and wouldn't have flaked on you......give it up, this guy is a dud.
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