barbossa Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Monkey Branching when a girl already has a boyfriend but she gives her number to guys that she meets and flirts as if she were single. she's basically branching off from her boyfriend and establishing backups. 1) First it must be established beyond a reasonable doubt the girl is monkey branching In my case She is hot ( her hot pics get 500+ likes on fb)fun and flirty on the app but her facebook profile says she's been in a relationship with her bf for 3 years her profile is public that is how I saw, so is her Bf. She's never once mentioned she has a bf, I have never bothered to ask, my sexually explicit messages are answered as " oh my gosh you are so bad/naughty" and she hasn't blocked me yet ( sometimes as I am typing the explicit message to her I think she will surely block me after this..... But she hasn't... wtf?) In my defence She has a bf I met her online she only sometimes answers my messages even if they are completely platonic and polite so if I have a low chance or no chance ( lets be real) with her anyway and am only seen as a form of entertainment why is it wrong for me to say what ever i want to her? Or try to get away with saying as much as i want. ( wow can i get away with saying this?) that is the fun part for me If i knew she was single, I wouldn't say that isshhh because i wouldn't want to screw it up End game If she blocks me? well I had never had a real chance anyway... she had a bf anyway. Thoughts? 1
neowulf Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Time and energy have value, they're finite and you only get to spend it once. So is it "wrong"? Technically speaking, probably not, but it's hardly classy. Better question. Do you have anything better to be doing with your life than this? Are you allowing this woman to soak up time and energy you *could* be spending on an actual prospect? Because in the end man, you're really just disrespecting yourself. That's my thoughts. 8
HumanMachine Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Time and energy have value, they're finite and you only get to spend it once. So is it "wrong"? Technically speaking, probably not, but it's hardly classy. Better question. Do you have anything better to be doing with your life than this? Are you allowing this woman to soak up time and energy you *could* be spending on an actual prospect? Because in the end man, you're really just disrespecting yourself. That's my thoughts. I was going to say Thoughts? You need to get a life I guess the above is slightly more polite 5
elaine567 Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 She is obviously going for "celebrity" fb status so sexual comments like yours are par for the course and expected. She replies to keep you on board and still watching her fb page, not because she is turned on or interested in you or has any thoughts of monkey branching. There is a reason she gets 500+ fb likes, she obviously works hard to keep her fanbase up with "personal" replies, but i guess "oh my gosh you are so bad/naughty", may be a cut and paste she uses a lot... 1
Toodaloo Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 I was going to say Thoughts? You need to get a life I guess the above is slightly more polite Well those were more polite than my first thoughts... A lack of self respect and a lack of acting with dignity seem to be shinning through here. Perhaps work on those first OP rather than go about being actively creepy to random girls because they dare to talk to men and already have a boyfriend... 3
jen1447 Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Whatever floats your boat but it seems like the approach most of the other cattle are probably already taking anyway. 2
kendahke Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 She's not your girlfriend, so why do you even care how she conducts herself? How do you know her boyfriend doesn't have a problem with it and is reading the responses and telling her what to type? You don't know what's going on in her life in real time. Seems to be you have far better things to do with your time than this pettiness. 2
Methodical Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Your end game objective is a moot point. You think you are giving her a dose of her own medicine when in reality you are giving her exactly what she wants, time and attention, so you still lose. Stop fueling her fire and move on. 2
losangelena Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 I can't understand this way of relating to someone. At all. OP, who cares if she's a "sexy," minor FB celebrity who has a boyfriend? She's a HUMAN. Why would you even consider communicating with anyone in a "sexually creepy" manner? Who cares if you can "get away with it?" Ugh, dude. Please, no. 1
preraph Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 You need to ask yourself why your biggest payoff is getting creepy with a person and maybe take that to your corner therapist. That's not normal. 2
smackie9 Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 She's not looking for anything except attention to boost her already inflated ego. She has no interest to benefit you, she couldn't give a rat's @$$ about what you want. You are like bubble gum...you lost your flavor so she spits you out.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 What's the point though, OP? You're not the only guy talking to her like that, so I doubt she really cares.
GemmaUK Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Go for it if you want to. You're just a laugh to her and mean nothing, she gets it all the time or she wouldn't have replied as she did already. She certainly doesn't see you as anything serious. It''ll just be stuff to laugh over with her friends.
LookAtThisPOst Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 I have often wondered why girlfriends or even WIVES of husbands still try to be sexy on Facebook. I'd be ashamed to be husband if that were the case. I'd have say in the matter.
Erised Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 I have often wondered why girlfriends or even WIVES of husbands still try to be sexy on Facebook. I'd be ashamed to be husband if that were the case. I'd have say in the matter. Ah, some men like it. I have to draw a higher line than my SO does... he suggests posting photos that I would not post myself (and thus don't). I actually find that to be very common.
Erised Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 She is doing the bare minimum she needs to keep you as a "fan," following the same thing she does with many other men. She is trying to build more of a social media presence. What you're getting away with has no more meaning than what you'd get away with saying to the empty air around you. No one is stopping you, but it is serving no purpose for your time either. I have a friend who does cosplay and her own minor internet celebrity. She does the same things. If you enjoy it, though I can't imagine why, I suppose it doesn't hurt to continue... though it smacks of wanting to show a woman or see if you can cross her boundaries, which is weird... but it's giving you both what you want then. She gets the attention and continued likes. You get... umm, whatever you're getting from this. It won't be more.
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