Roseygem Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 Hi Guys, I need advice from both the females and the males here... My friend of 25 years has known a guy for around 3 years (he is 40), although they never spoke daily when they did talk to one another you could tell there was a spark. They finally went out for drinks around 6 months ago and slept together. I was surprised to hear that they drifted apart...but hey ho there is a 15 year age gap so no surprise really. Now this guy has moved into the same town where she lives to be closer to his two children. Once again they got chatting again and he invited her round...I don't have spell out how the night went lol... Now here is where I am confused...He said he shouldn't have left her hanging for 6 months, he really enjoyed their night together and jokingly said to her 'lets not leave it another 6 months'. That was on Saturday. She's sent him a whatsapp today and although he has been online via whatsapp, facebook he is yet to read her message....or even send her a text. Is he really into her? He is a great guy, a busy one, self-employed, has two children and has just moved house. Maybe he's just really busy, he had a scary marriage so maybe doesn't want to rush into anything? She is stunning so why he hasn't replied is a mystery... Maybe he's playing hot n cold?
sugarpuss Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 I think it's really hard to say without knowing more details. He might be dating other girls as well so that your friend isn't a top priority, or maybe he's more or less using her for sex and doesn't want either party to get too attached. Or maybe he has a hang up about the age difference.
kendahke Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 I'm not getting why being busy today is mutually exclusive from his level of interest in her. It's been one day. I can see the concern if it'd have been 6 weeks.
Bialy Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 He's got a lot going on in his life. What was their last interaction like? Did they specifically make plans to keep in touch and do anything together before the end of the summer? Maybe he's not entirely aware of what SHE wants.
stillafool Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 Maybe you could invite your friend to post her story here so we can get more insight that only she would know.
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