love1336x Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 I sense that my girlfriend lately is acting more and more like me. Now I don’t know if she’s doing it on purpose, or really changing into me. For instance, I am a cracky jerk if you awaken me up when I haven’t slept good at all. Beforehand, she was never like that, now she is. When I yell at our cat (the cat likes her more than me) she yells at my dog the same exact way. There is more stuff, but these are examples. I really can’t put into words, but more of bad personality, she tries to copy. It sort of makes me upset because why can’t you stay you, and I stay me? Do you really have to be a child and copy me? Can’t you straight up tell me if something about me is bothering you to change it? I swear in this relationship she drives me off the walls. 1
Cherryz Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 Its clear that you know what you doing wrong. Instead of work on it you busy looking at how she copy you? Why does she have to tell you while you know it? Its your job to become a better you for yourself. How old are you guys? This sound childish and immature relationship. Have a conversation with her about this. 3
Author love1336x Posted August 1, 2016 Author Posted August 1, 2016 Its clear that you know what you doing wrong. Instead of work on it you busy looking at how she copy you? Why does she have to tell you while you know it? Its your job to become a better you for yourself. How old are you guys? This sound childish and immature relationship. Have a conversation with her about this. And why do you assumed that I haven't try to change? I don't sleep late so I'm not cranky. Our furry pets. He took a BIG piss on my clothes when his litter was clean. I had my clothes in a box and he decided he wanting to take a piss. The dog was chewing on a socks for ten seconds. The situations are completely and utterly different. It doesn't need to be applied with the same treatment. And am I a mind reader? 1
Satu Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 Snip And am I a mind reader? That's a negative. Work on your own behaviour. Be the best you that you can be. Take care. 1
bummer Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 You clearly don't like hearing it, but you are projecting negativity and guess what? Your gf is giving it right back. Project positive and healthy discord if your pets misbehave. Grow up and be nice always, no matter what. You gain nothing from being a dick. 2
mikeylo Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 People deal differently to same situation. She is giving you what you do to her and making you feel what she feels. Some people don't make a change till they get taste of their own medicine. 2
Bee4Shine Posted August 2, 2016 Posted August 2, 2016 Is she aware that she is doing this? I can't tell from your post, although it seems as if you don't even know. Sometimes things rub off and she may be unaware - imitation is the greatest form of flattery. If she is actually, doing it to bug you, maybe point out your flaws, maybe a conversation is necessary. Ask her why she is mimicking you? Maybe you can change those things that you maybe need to work on yourself. 1
preraph Posted August 3, 2016 Posted August 3, 2016 You do realize when pets are acting out, it's the human owner that needs training, right? They're just being who they are. They aren't people. They have no reasoning power. You being mad has no influence on them. They just think you're weak when you're all worked up and won't follow that. 2
basil67 Posted August 3, 2016 Posted August 3, 2016 She's probably copying you in a "well let's see how HE likes it" stance. If you don't like her behaviour, then stop doing it yourself. Oh, and yelling at a pet has no positive outcome. 1
ChickiePops Posted August 3, 2016 Posted August 3, 2016 She's probably copying you in a "well let's see how HE likes it" stance. If you don't like her behaviour, then stop doing it yourself. Oh, and yelling at a pet has no positive outcome. I think OP is a she.
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