KamaKyzie Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 Hey there loveshack. I feel I may be done with this girl. I called her last night and she was snapchatting another guy, who is supposedly her best friend. She also talked him up on the phone to me. This made the blood rush to my head, so I had to calm myself. As a result of my effort to calm myself, I took it to avoid saying something nasty. However, next time I speak to her, I won't stand for it. I'll say "Call me back when you're conversation's done" and hang up before she can respond. I will NOT stand for this. She's also going to get the apathetic treatment if she texts me this week. I'm a good looking guy, she's not my only option. Time for her to do some sucking up, because nobody plays me. Am I overreacting? Or should I do this? What would you recommend I do?
leogirl876 Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 It sounds like you're overreacting and being controlling. Is this your girlfriend who you're in an exclusive relationship with or someone you just started dating? Either way, you sound jealous and controlling, not something a decent girl would want to get involved with.
HumanMachine Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 What's your issue with her having a male best friend? Insecure much?
frus69 Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 What's your issue with her having a male best friend? Insecure much? I would never date someone who has an opposite sex best friend. Now to OP, how much is your GF interact with her male friend? If it's a lot then she needs to knock it off. If they only catch up once a month and the conversations aren't even that long then you need to relax
LostOnes05 Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 I think if it is a recurring issue, then yea TALK to her about it. I don't think it's an insecurity, just a legitimate concern. I can't count the amount of "oh, he/she is just a friend" or "I'm not attracted to her/him that way" posts that turn into cheating and someone getting blindsided. Speak up but don't be a jerk about it. Just calm down and say what you need to. If it doesn't change then wish her well.
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