tamara8605 Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 To make things short my husband and I have been having problems and misunderstandings. Finally I realized the wrong I caused and want to change. I opened up to him and told him I want to make things better and I still wanted him. He basically said he needed time to figure things out. Well later he said we were going to try. Also to have hope and faith that things work out. Things haven't gotten worse but at the same time I am still waiting for things to get better. I just want to know what I can do to help our relationship and get the connection back without pushing him away. If you have any questions to better help me feel free to ask.
Gloria25 Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 Well if you're looking for advice, I recommend "time and actions" vs "talk". What I mean is, good thing you informed him of your plans to make things better. He may be leery and not ready to make a decision until he sees the changes you make. IMO, men mostly look for actions while we women look for talk. So, don't talk about changing anymore. He knows what you said. Implement these changes (actions). When in time he sees you're consistent, he'll come around. You're his wife, that's an advantage on its own. He has an incentive to give you the opportunity to fix things. Oh, and resist the urge to ask him what he thinks about the RL, your changes, etc. Just be consistent in your actions and give it time. Well wishes!!!
Redhead14 Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 To make things short my husband and I have been having problems and misunderstandings. Finally I realized the wrong I caused and want to change. I opened up to him and told him I want to make things better and I still wanted him. He basically said he needed time to figure things out. Well later he said we were going to try. Also to have hope and faith that things work out. Things haven't gotten worse but at the same time I am still waiting for things to get better. I just want to know what I can do to help our relationship and get the connection back without pushing him away. If you have any questions to better help me feel free to ask. How old are you both? How long have you been together?
standtall Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 t...that post was very vague. It is hard to help if the readers don't know how severe the problems/issues are, how old you are, and how long you've been married.. If the are severe enough to consider divorce, perhaps some professional MC is in order.
SammySammy Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 I saw something interesting about reconnecting with your spouse on Facebook. Video Text Can't guarantee that it will help your marriage, but I think it's worth listening to. Considering.
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