ANewBeginning Posted July 30, 2016 Posted July 30, 2016 Thanks for reading guys. Yes I know; ask her out and you'll get the answer and I plan to after we've chatted more and I get to know her a bit better. So I am a senior student at our local hospital. One week we picked up some new students. One of the females in particularly; -would offer to buy me lunch when she was on break -grabbed me an extra cupcake when the canteen were giving freebies out -put her hand up to help me first between the two students -due to the physical nature of our course, we'd be facilitating patients to move and at times our hands would touch with the ensuing awkward silence. -strong eye contact when we chatted Bear in mind I've never had a girl be like that to me let alone if it were a requirement while they were on work experience. I am essentially one of them really. So their last day and our goodbyes was quick and awkward as I had many patients to see. So I happily let it be that she was one of those amazing girls you meet before parting ways; never to hear from again. Thing is, a week ago, she added me on facebook (never happened to me before) and we started chatting. Now I am not sure what to make of this. I've been out of dating so long due to some rough relationships let alone not even sure where I'd find time if I manage to get a date.
spiderowl Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 Sounds like she likes you. Do you like her? That's all that matters really.
preraph Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 You're going to totally blow it if you don't stop obsessing every little sweaty detail and just ask her out. Pull the Bandaid off. The longer you wait, the more fearful and unattractive you become. 1
Bialy Posted July 31, 2016 Posted July 31, 2016 She likes you and she's curious about learning more about you (hence the Facebook request). Deep breath - chat more with her! See if she'd like to hang out sometime - it's summertime -- is there a festival in your area that's coming up soon? Maybe invite her... 1
thecrucible Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 She likes you and she's curious about learning more about you (hence the Facebook request). Deep breath - chat more with her! See if she'd like to hang out sometime - it's summertime -- is there a festival in your area that's coming up soon? Maybe invite her... Yes do this as it comes across that you want to get her know her more, you are making progress and it also has the appearance of being low key. You are thinking of going to a festival/event/whatever in your area and would she like to come along to check it out with you? OP come back and tell us what happens. Good luck Also better to take a chance and bite the bullet. It's always worse thinking about it than actually doing it. 1
Shanex Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 You're going to totally blow it if you don't stop obsessing every little sweaty detail and just ask her out. Pull the Bandaid off. The longer you wait, the more fearful and unattractive you become. Agreed, you're overnalizying every details. It's clear she likes you but it seems you created this topic just to be sure. Make your move, be it on FB, so ask her out of work for a date. I wish women were as forward with me, this doesn't happen quite often to us, so take a chance. And update this thread.
bubbaganoosh Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 Look. Start slow and ask her if she would like to meet for coffee somewhere. Sound like she was interested in you so break the ice and ask.
smackie9 Posted August 1, 2016 Posted August 1, 2016 (edited) Stop making excuses!!! She's been serving herself on a patter to you. When you ask her out, have a date planned out, and always have a plan B ready too. When you ask her out you present her when and where. For example "I know this great little restaurant, it's casual, but the food is amazing....would you be interested in going with me this Saturday?" Not trying to poo poo the above post but coffee dates are for first time meeting someone like on line dating. You already know this girl, you have already chatted, so it would be fitting to take it to the next level. Edited August 1, 2016 by smackie9 1
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