Ex is indirectly contacting me on social media [updated: He randomly sent me nudes]

[niveacream]

I'm going to ignore. It's just stupid that he is saying stupid stuff and trying to fight when he decided to dump me via text. When we broke up, I had to ask "are we broken up?" and he said :"yes"...just that. lol And now he wants me to chase him?! wtf

[stillafool]

Don't just ignore him, block him.

[Bialy]

For your own sanity, avoid communication. It's hard at first, but it's the only way to detox any residual feelings you have for him.

[niveacream]

I've been in no contact for the past months. I blocked him on social networking and it really felt good. It helped me in moving on...and I felt almost 100%.

Randomly I received an email last weekend (unknown email) when I opened the message, saw two pictures of my ex bfs penis. Lol in one of those pics I can actually see his face...the title of the pic shows the date and it's from June.

So...I'm mad now. For two reasons:

1. Why da would he think I would like to see his penis?

2. He took a pic in June showing is and his face and I suppose when someone takes a nude is to send it to someone. So after two months of us being broken up, he already was sending and trusting someone to send his penis showing his face? I'm not sure if I'm over thinking but now I wonder if he had someone for a longer time and was cheating on me...

 

Don't want to talk to him anymore, I just hate the possibility that he was cheating.

[Satu]

Just block him on everything, including email from unknown sources.

 

He's not worth thinking about.

 

 

*No direct contact.

*No sending or receiving of messages.

*Block any means she might use to contact you.

*No replies to anything that gets through your blocks.

*No indirect contact through third parties.

*De-friend or delete from all social media.

*No monitoring of her on social media.

*No 'little birds' feeding you news.

*Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what she is doing or saying.

 

 

Take care.

[Mrin]

His name wouldn't be Anthony would it?

[niveacream]

His name wouldn't be Anthony would it?

 

No, why?? :\

[Mrin]

No, why?? :\

 

Sorry, couldn't resist a little bit of current events Anthony Weiner humor.

 

Also: block this dude on email. Total jerk.

[stillafool]

I've been in no contact for the past months. I blocked him on social networking and it really felt good. It helped me in moving on...and I felt almost 100%.

Randomly I received an email last weekend (unknown email) when I opened the message, saw two pictures of my ex bfs penis. Lol in one of those pics I can actually see his face...the title of the pic shows the date and it's from June.

So...I'm mad now. For two reasons:

1. Why da would he think I would like to see his penis?

2. He took a pic in June showing is and his face and I suppose when someone takes a nude is to send it to someone. So after two months of us being broken up, he already was sending and trusting someone to send his penis showing his face? I'm not sure if I'm over thinking but now I wonder if he had someone for a longer time and was cheating on me...

 

Don't want to talk to him anymore, I just hate the possibility that he was cheating.

 

He probably meant this email for another girl. If you have blocked him how could he send a pic? Block him and continue NC.

[niveacream]

He probably meant this email for another girl. If you have blocked him how could he send a pic? Block him and continue NC.

 

It was for me because in the body of the message he said "I still masturbate to ur pics (my name)".

He sent it from a random email.

[stillafool]

It was for me because in the body of the message he said "I still masturbate to ur pics (my name)".

He sent it from a random email.

 

Who cares? Just block him and continue NC. It's questions like above that keeps you stuck. Move on.

[Zahara]

It was for me because in the body of the message he said "I still masturbate to ur pics (my name)".

He sent it from a random email.

 

 

Block this email.

[stillafool]

 

His mom who also follows me on Instagram said to me that he had the nerve to bother me after his behavior (he broke up with me via text and in a very cold way).

 

What do you think of all of this?

 

You need to block his mom and family as well. Be strong.

[NopeNah]

You need to block his mom and family as well. Be strong.

Or just post up his penis pic to Instagram..That should end communication.

[ChickiePops]

It was for me because in the body of the message he said "I still masturbate to ur pics (my name)".

He sent it from a random email.

 

Ewwwwwww hahahaha. Is this REALLY the kind of guy you want to waste time thinking about???

[niveacream]

No, it's not but I can't help it... I feel disappointed like I didn't know him at all.

[privategal]

You broke up in may according to your post. How much longer do you want to waste not healing and moving on.

Tell him to STOP ALL CONTACT. Block. It's time to end the drama once and for all this is all so high school, he shouldn't be given ANY time in your thoughts he is a JERK

[Zahara]

No, it's not but I can't help it... I feel disappointed like I didn't know him at all.

 

You can feel disappointed but you need to stop being accessible to him because this has gone on for months leaving you with nothing but uncertainty and pain. There has been no reward so what's your objective in allowing him contact?

 

If he's not the kind of guy you want to be with then block him. Being open to his communication is saying otherwise. You're hoping something is going to change, he's going to come around and rescue you, become this wonderful guy that will love you. That's not happening -- sending you penis pics is indicative of how he views you.

 

Block him.