Why do i always gets attracted to guys who would never date out of their religion

[crazybestie101]

This may sound insane to some.

 

But i always end up attracting to guys who would never marry out of their religion. I have long term Jewish friend, we both know we click pretty well. We both knows we like each other. But every time we talk about dating each other, he always says he has to marry Jewish woman. If he were to go with non Jewish woman, she has to convert and it's not fair.Since then we don't talk much..

 

Recently, i have met one of the SWEETEST guy in the world. Like really, i am so blown away by his charm. When he is with, i feel like princess. He is smart, polite, humble and list goes on..BUT he is Mormon. And like many of you know they don't marry outside of their religion.. All though it doesn't seem like he is too much involved in his church but at the end of the day he will marry another Mormon girl .. I just feel like i am carried away by his charm and i need to save myself before i have my heard broken..

 

Anyone ever went through similar? Like getting attracted to people who you know never can be with you because religion. Me and my family are pretty chill about religion and stuff. My parents are super welcoming and have friends from both religions above..

[elaine567]

Maybe you are deliberately choosing "unavailable" men. Some people do that to protect themselves.

 

Also guys who do not see you as dating material can be very friendly as they are not pressurised into trying to impress you, they can relax and be themselves.

[scooby-philly]

Well to me the first question to logically ask is...where and or how do you meet guys? I think if you were going to their services it would be obvious.....but there may be a pattern right in front of you that your are missing. For example....do you always meet guys on a dating website.....then you would need to change your search patterns or dog a little deeper before respondong to a guy. In your case it sounds like you meet them in oerson.....so do you frquent the same bar or coffee shop? Do you meet them via similsar activities like a bookclub or yoga classes?

 

The first poster has a very good point. Many people who suffer through a traumatic dating experience or who had issues or problemd growing up.....can definitely pick the wrong type of people becuse it serves as a protection measure kn case of failure. But...that takes a lot of work over a long period of time. In the short term you can look at the physical pattern of how and where u meet guys as a starter.