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I'm currently talking to this girl who I've known since fall 2014. I met her at school, and she eventually went her own way going to another school, as did I.

 

During that time, up till about January this year, we rarely texted. A lot of times in the past, I would text her and it would take two damn weeks to get a reply. Or we could be texting having a conversation and then she would all the sudden stop texting

 

So fast forward to this summer. We texted a little bit here and there, and I found out she is going to my school this fall. Last week, I called her to see if she wanted to hang, it was a shot in the dark because I didn't even expect her to answer. We ended up hanging out after all. I drove to her apartments, we went to eat at cheap Chinese buffet (that's where she wanted to go) then we went back to her apartments, and as soon as I parked my vehicle, she got on the phone with a family member speaking Indian language. We walked to the apartment pool, and she said I can wait there although it'll be a while and I just offered instead to hangout another time.

 

So I was at the apartments for roughly 5 minutes before being told basically I need to leave because of some sort of family emergency (I don't know what it was because their conversation was in another language)

 

Here are a few draw backs from that night after sitting and talking with her

1. She seemed very interested to talk to me

2. She seemed very happy and ambitious (she has a business idea of her own-it pertains to helping couples in the bedroom or something like that)

3. She asked me if I could one day go with her to the "sexy store"

4. She's doing well in school

5. She asked me an awful lot of questions, usually it's the guy asking the girl all the questions

So fast forward to today, her last day of summer class. I called her, she called me back and told me it was her last day and said she may be free. A customer walked in to the store (I was at work) and I told her I'd call her right back. We got busier than expected so I called her back roughly 40 minutes later. So then I waited for a phone call back on my way home, and about an hour later I called and it rang only 2-3 times before being sent to voicemail

 

Know this : when she called me back and answered, she sounded happy and I told her I would call her right back, she had no problem with it.

 

So what the hell is she doing? Is it me? Is it my fault? If it is, I will gladly admit to my mistakes and fix them and my flaws as best as possible. Or is she playing some stupid game?

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Get used to it.

 

A lot of people like "orbiters".

 

Someome they can call on when bored and can diss when they want.

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Well here's an update

 

Two days after not hearing back, she finally texts and says

 

"Lol no worries sorry I couldn't call you back. Been busy"

 

That message was sent late Saturday night

 

I replied Sunday morning, I said it's alright, then she says good morning, then I say good morning back in a friendly way

 

About 5-10 minutes later, I texted saying "what are you doing on this lovely sunday?"

 

To this moment, no reply.

 

What did she do there?

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