guy I'm falling for him it's been a month and he said he doesn't feel the same way

[panda2]

I told a guy I'm falling for him it's been a month and he said he doesn't feel the same way we been having sex and i don't know what to do he said I should take some time to think about it it honestly hurt me and I don't want to get hurt so Im asking for advice thanx

[stillafool]

Stop having sex with him. He has told you he doesn't feel the same way about you so if you continue to have sex with him you will continually be in pain. If I were you I would say goodbye to him and go no contact so you can heal.

[Satu]

Stop having sex with him. He has told you he doesn't feel the same way about you so if you continue to have sex with him you will continually be in pain. If I were you I would say goodbye to him and go no contact so you can heal.

 

As above. Absolutely.

[panda2]

Thanx you for ure advice

[preraph]

Just stop having sex with him and cut your losses and block him. Sorry. It happens all too often and has happened to all of us. Truth is you didn't know him at all but fell for him. Now you know he's not who you hoped he was, so just move on. He won't change.

[panda2]

How do I tell him or should I Say anything to him I'm not a person to be doing these Things and I'm actually don't want to say anything to him but I feel like it's it's the right thing to tell him it's over because that's just how I really feel

[longjohn]

It's time to end it with him. After a month he should be feeling something. Just tell him the truth you want more and your moving on.

[Dis]

Hun, unless your just looking for casual sex...dont have sex outside a relationship

 

I dont understand why so many women (who want something serious and have feelings to the guy) so readily give away sex...and expect the guy to magically fall in love with her

 

Its a recipe for disaster

 

Because I'm not looking for casual sex and want a serious relationship...I will never allow a man to use me in hopes that he'll want what I want...thats just naive

 

Cut your losses hun and move on...dont have sex with him...dont call..dont text...and next time protect your heart by not having sex until you enter into a relationship (unless you just want casual sex)

[Vado]

Hun, unless your just looking for casual sex...dont have sex outside a relationship

 

I dont understand why so many women (who want something serious and have feelings to the guy) so readily give away sex...and expect the guy to magically fall in love with her

 

Its a recipe for disaster

 

Because I'm not looking for casual sex and want a serious relationship...I will never allow a man to use me in hopes that he'll want what I want...thats just naive

 

Cut your losses hun and move on...dont have sex with him...dont call..dont text...and next time protect your heart by not having sex until you enter into a relationship (unless you just want casual sex)

 

Sex should not be something you give away, do it for your own, cs you like it. But this is common: before sex girls are looking for a reason to dump the guy/ after sex guys are looking for a reason why she's not his type. Both stages should be 2.5/3 weeks each. So if you survive after 5/6 weeks you can slowly enter the relationship. It starts with being exclusive... relationship doesn't start with sex, bcs than the girl, in all her feminine, found to many reasons why he ain't ''The One"

[Emilia]

How do I tell him or should I Say anything to him I'm not a person to be doing these Things and I'm actually don't want to say anything to him but I feel like it's it's the right thing to tell him it's over because that's just how I really feel

You absolutely need to tell him and stop seeing him.

[leogirl876]

How do I tell him or should I Say anything to him I'm not a person to be doing these Things and I'm actually don't want to say anything to him but I feel like it's it's the right thing to tell him it's over because that's just how I really feel

 

Tell him you're not looking for something casual, that you're looking for an exclusive relationship. Since he told you he's not feeling the same way, that this is not gonna work and that you wish him the best. And the use the no contact rule, don't call him, text him, sleep with him or anything. And if he comes back to you, he has to earn his way back by showing you he wants a relationship, doubt you'll hear from him again, but if you do, use caution.