Claire84 Posted July 28, 2016 Posted July 28, 2016 I met a guy at a socialising group. We only briefly said hello once before. Last week there was an event to meet new people - he brought a woman with him, she is a lesbian and couldn't remember how to say his name so she is not interested. I sat on his table and was talking to some people, he interrupted and said hello and waved at me. I was a bit surprised as we have never spoken and I said hi but carried on talking to there others as he was chatting to the woman. I told my friend and she was shocked he said hi to me as she said he is very shy and doesn't say much to people. My friend said why did I not speak to him when he said hello, I felt that he closed himself off from the group by bringing another woman which they sat in the corner and did not want to interrupt. The next evening he came to a walk but we did not speak. I would have spoke to him but feel a bit shy around him now. From our walking group profiles it seems we have a lot in common. We even randomly got matched on eHarmony last year but his profile was dormant so we never spoke on there. He has tried to look me up on Facebook a few times. I don't know if I should recreate my POF profile just so he may see we could possibly be a match. I thought if he sees the profile it might spur him on coming to the group more. He will be out on the weekend and I wondered if anyone has any tips on how to speak to him? It seems he is shy and so am I.
kolleamm Posted July 28, 2016 Posted July 28, 2016 Ask him how long he has been part of the group and what he likes about it. That or continue being shy.
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