KamaKyzie Posted July 28, 2016 Posted July 28, 2016 The girl I like snapped me her costume for this evening. She texted saying "Isn't it cute?". I want to reply " A close second to its owner" Or "Not as cute as you". Or " I prefer the wearer".I've never complimented her, so I don't just dish them out willy nilly. Will I sound like a creep? A wimp? Should I say this? What is your preferred variation?
CarrieT Posted July 28, 2016 Posted July 28, 2016 My goodness - do you overthink EVERY comment you make to a girl? 5
JewelD Posted July 28, 2016 Posted July 28, 2016 I would prefer none of those because it seems like you put too much effort into it. Just say, "Wow, you look great". or something simple.
PegNosePete Posted July 28, 2016 Posted July 28, 2016 "It would look nice on the floor next to my bed" Giggity giggity. 2
kolleamm Posted July 28, 2016 Posted July 28, 2016 I think your afraid to reveal you like her and get turned down.
Author KamaKyzie Posted July 28, 2016 Author Posted July 28, 2016 I think your afraid to reveal you like her and get turned down. You've hit the nail on the head. I sent her the compliment and haven't heard back, so I guess my fears were justified. Seems like the spark's over and my chances are done.Thanks anyway people.
preraph Posted July 29, 2016 Posted July 29, 2016 Hey, she went begging for attention and a compliment, so whatever you say to her she shouldn't get mad about. You should just get all this over with and ask her out. Whatever it going to happen is going to happen eventually anyway. Then you can either have a date or get on with your life. The longer you wait, the chances of it working get lower and lower.
Author KamaKyzie Posted July 29, 2016 Author Posted July 29, 2016 Hey, she went begging for attention and a compliment, so whatever you say to her she shouldn't get mad about. You should just get all this over with and ask her out. Whatever it going to happen is going to happen eventually anyway. Then you can either have a date or get on with your life. The longer you wait, the chances of it working get lower and lower. Thanks. I just want to know. It's not knowing that's the killer. If she doesn't like me, so be it. It's not the end of the world and I can move on. I don't have trouble attracting girls. I might wait until the end of today for a reply and if I don't get one assume the worst. Do you think that's logical?
SevenCity Posted July 29, 2016 Posted July 29, 2016 Thanks. I just want to know. It's not knowing that's the killer. If she doesn't like me, so be it. It's not the end of the world and I can move on. I don't have trouble attracting girls. I might wait until the end of today for a reply and if I don't get one assume the worst. Do you think that's logical? It seems like you are putting a lot into a girl you don't even know. I would not worry about it and if you want to make a move ask her out (only after she responds to you). But interest in a girl is usually easy to see. She would likely have texted you back quicker.
azlightsout Posted July 29, 2016 Posted July 29, 2016 The girl I like snapped me her costume for this evening. She texted saying "Isn't it cute?". I want to reply " A close second to its owner" Or "Not as cute as you". Or " I prefer the wearer".I've never complimented her, so I don't just dish them out willy nilly. Will I sound like a creep? A wimp? Should I say this? What is your preferred variation? Let em hang - young grasshoppa - Speak your mind - speak the truth --- If the truth hurts SO BE IT .
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