miss-gonewest Posted July 1, 2005 Posted July 1, 2005 Ahh, another happy love shacker! Good to see that they really do exist! And Nightsecho seems to be at peace now too... That may leave us some time to work on Greenie next!
greenhorn Posted July 1, 2005 Posted July 1, 2005 Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo This is normal and natural after so much time together and such bad behaviour on her part. Every time I hear your story I think how badly she behaved... It's too early anyhow. Don't rule it out forever though - most girls are trustworthy and kind and will make you happy. The bad ones just have good camouflage People reap what they sow. It just hasn't caught up with her yet. It will. Embarrassing for who? *You* don't have to be embarrassed.... you're not the one who should be ashamed of themselves Hey Romeo, thanks for those kind words, they help a lot in the process of moving on. Hope everyone of us finds peace and happiness. Originally posted by miss-gonewest Someone said it before (was it you Green?) and I'm gonna say it again... you, my friend Romeo, have really mellowed! This new lass must be sumthin sumthin!!! Good for you! Yeah MGW, it was me who analysed the change in Romeo, good for him and we are glad. Originally posted by miss-gonewest That may leave us some time to work on Greenie next! Sure, sure, I look forward to it , thanks for it
miss-gonewest Posted July 1, 2005 Posted July 1, 2005 Originally posted by greenhorn Yeah MGW, it was me who analysed the change in Romeo, good for him and we are glad. Sure, sure, I look forward to it , thanks for it I think I can feel your gladness across the ocean... So are we chipping in for tupperware as a wedding gift? I'lll buy you a copy of "She just not that into you, if she doesn't drink tequila" and I guess we can call it square???
Author NightsEcho Posted July 1, 2005 Author Posted July 1, 2005 Hey all, I'm still trying to find that elusive peace or a return to whatever was. That feeling of comfort. Well gang.......still no reply....not sure I even want one. She has made the choice to leave, and I must make the choice to not let it affect me. It's a national holiday here in Canada. Happy Canada Day! and to all the Americans in 3 days happy early Independence Day
greenhorn Posted July 1, 2005 Posted July 1, 2005 Originally posted by miss-gonewest I think I can feel your gladness across the ocean... So are we chipping in for tupperware as a wedding gift? I'lll buy you a copy of "She just not that into you, if she doesn't drink tequila" and I guess we can call it square??? I think Romeo would like Tupperware as his wedding gift, Romeo I would surely come, you are not that far from me. Do you know that my boss works out from your country ? yeah that book will make MGW square with Romeo.
greenhorn Posted July 1, 2005 Posted July 1, 2005 Originally posted by NightsEcho Hey all, I'm still trying to find that elusive peace or a return to whatever was. That feeling of comfort. Well gang.......still no reply....not sure I even want one. She has made the choice to leave, and I must make the choice to not let it affect me. It's a national holiday here in Canada. Happy Canada Day! and to all the Americans in 3 days happy early Independence Day Hi NE, dont worry dude, some of the questions are best left un-answered . Don't be dependant on your ex for anything, not even for peace of mind, try to find it elsewhere. Don't let her get the satisfaction that she is still controlling you. yeah your choice is good, dont let her affect you. Have a happy national day, and when 4th July comes, we will wish the Americans as well.
Author NightsEcho Posted July 2, 2005 Author Posted July 2, 2005 So here I am, out enjoying our Canadian National holiday. A little down that my ex may be leaving town (she still hasen't called back. Anyway get home...check my MSN...and there is a message from beautiful girl from HS from like 3 years ago! just a random message saying hi and seeing if I wanna get together. Now I thought maybe she heard I was single now..but no....she lives in Austin Texas! She is coming to visit soon I think. Weird how these things work....I'll keep you updated
greenhorn Posted July 2, 2005 Posted July 2, 2005 Originally posted by NightsEcho So here I am, out enjoying our Canadian National holiday. A little down that my ex may be leaving town (she still hasen't called back. Anyway get home...check my MSN...and there is a message from beautiful girl from HS from like 3 years ago! just a random message saying hi and seeing if I wanna get together. Now I thought maybe she heard I was single now..but no....she lives in Austin Texas! She is coming to visit soon I think. Weird how these things work....I'll keep you updated Yeah it feels good that someone is caring for you and definitely acts as a catalyst in the process of moving on. I don't mean someone has to be of romantic intent but anyone who cares. I remember when I was down and came back from my hosp, I got calls from my mother, my siblings, brother in law(they some-how got the news, but only that I was sick) and few friends and it felt good. It gave me some sort of feeling that atleast there is someone in this world who cares for me. So good luck man, dig in your past and find your old friends and spend time with them. Enjoy your holiday !
Author NightsEcho Posted July 2, 2005 Author Posted July 2, 2005 ya definately a trip that someone was out there thinking of me from so long ago. She was always that unobtainable girl...2 years older....drop dead gorgeous (i had a crush) we developed a friendship so quickly. But after HS lost touch....we have e-mailed like maybe 3 times in 3 years, maybe she was just thinking of me...lol Thanks as always green
greenhorn Posted July 2, 2005 Posted July 2, 2005 Originally posted by NightsEcho ya definately a trip that someone was out there thinking of me from so long ago. She was always that unobtainable girl...2 years older....drop dead gorgeous (i had a crush) we developed a friendship so quickly. But after HS lost touch....we have e-mailed like maybe 3 times in 3 years, maybe she was just thinking of me...lol Thanks as always green So pump up your fist and get going. Never let anyone write you off !! There lies opportunity in every adversity !!
Author NightsEcho Posted July 2, 2005 Author Posted July 2, 2005 Green, Still another day..without contact. This girl has some nerve. Hope your all well
greenhorn Posted July 2, 2005 Posted July 2, 2005 Originally posted by NightsEcho Green, Still another day..without contact. This girl has some nerve. Hope your all well Don't worry dude, don't hurt yourself by waiting for her call and thinking of her. She has gone from your life ( I know it hurts to hear it) but you can't force someone to love you, we all have problems in letting our first love go but there isn't much we can do. You were going on NC, so get going again. Whether she remains in your town or goes to coast does not matter to you, let go the hope of reconciliation. I know it will hurt but you need to go through the pain once more to move over. Someone who loves you will never let you cry and someone who does not cares for your tears is definitely not worth your time. Life is such only, it was your first love and not the last one, you will get someone who will love you as much as you do, who will be with you always. Till then just wait. There are rough patches in life and this one of yours is like this, you will emerge out of crisis with strength. Good Luck dude.
Author NightsEcho Posted July 2, 2005 Author Posted July 2, 2005 Green, thank you so much. As always you seem to help keep me level. I have let go of reconcilliation hopes....Don't even know if i want her back...don't really need closure...just wanna work out the last of this and be free. She just needs to stop trying to contact me I also wanna say off topic......Support live 8...it's on right now! Our problems are much smaller then whats out there
greenhorn Posted July 2, 2005 Posted July 2, 2005 You are welcome NE Yeah I agree she needs to stop contacting you, and now when she moves to coast make it sure that she does not contact you. what is Live 8 ? I don't live in States so don't know about it , but would love to get the details ?
Author NightsEcho Posted July 2, 2005 Author Posted July 2, 2005 live 8 is an all day concert going on in 8 countries.. Canada, USA, London, Tokyo, berlin, and more... it is on today to raise awareness for poverty in Africa Check out live8live.com Support those who need it NE
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by miss-gonewest So are we chipping in for tupperware as a wedding gift? I'lll buy you a copy of "She just not that into you, if she doesn't drink tequila" and I guess we can call it square??? ???
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by NightsEcho ya definately a trip that someone was out there thinking of me from so long ago. She was always that unobtainable girl...2 years older....drop dead gorgeous (i had a crush) we developed a friendship so quickly. But after HS lost touch....we have e-mailed like maybe 3 times in 3 years, maybe she was just thinking of me...lol Funny how they turn up, out of the blue, when you're getting over someone. Greenie's advice is good... go for it and try to let the ex fade into the background. It won't work properly at first, but it gets better with time.
Author NightsEcho Posted July 5, 2005 Author Posted July 5, 2005 So i don't have an update on my ex, but I have an update on the girl from the past. Got an e-mail from her last night, and as soon as I finshed reading it she signed into MSN! We talked for like 30 minutes. She was saying the sweetest things. Like she always had me in the back of her mind. Always wondered what I was doing, that she wanted to get together. She also said my ex was crazy, and that she went through a similar stage at 19. It felt so amazing to know that a girl I have known for so long had me in her thoughts. It was really eye-opening. People do care about us folks. And the lord above likely has a plan. The sun is shining so bright today
greenhorn Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 Originally posted by NightsEcho The sun is shining so bright today Good for you, take a plunge and enjoy the sun bath. You never know when opportunity knocks the door. Gather the learning from your previous relationships and use it in future. good luck
Author NightsEcho Posted July 5, 2005 Author Posted July 5, 2005 Greenhorn, hey man how you doing You know when we are all at the low points of a breakup we feel like nothing is ever gonna get better. Like we got lost from the master plan. That someone in heaven above is playing a twisted joke. But you know what, I have a feeling that 95% of us are gonna become bigger people, move on to better things. I don't know how to explain it. Like I said in a previous post the last few days have caused a slow sweeping feeling, that everything is gonna be alright. That life is to short and too much happens to just worry. I'm sure life will offer many surprises along the way. Just a feeling.
greenhorn Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 Originally posted by NightsEcho Greenhorn, hey man how you doing You know when we are all at the low points of a breakup we feel like nothing is ever gonna get better. Like we got lost from the master plan. That someone in heaven above is playing a twisted joke. But you know what, I have a feeling that 95% of us are gonna become bigger people, move on to better things. I don't know how to explain it. Like I said in a previous post the last few days have caused a slow sweeping feeling, that everything is gonna be alright. That life is to short and too much happens to just worry. I'm sure life will offer many surprises along the way. Just a feeling. Yeah I understand what you mean to say, I always feel the same that when you are the bottom most point, there is only one way i.e to go up from there. I am happy that you are feeling better than other days and I know things will be better for most of us. I wish everyone gets what they want.
Author NightsEcho Posted July 6, 2005 Author Posted July 6, 2005 Just an update: Well she never contacted me back. Just popped into my life and then disappeared off the radar again.. So this broke the camel's back. I sent her an e-mail saying I wanted my stuff back with my address and left it at that. It's over. I'm Done KE
greenhorn Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 Originally posted by NightsEcho Just an update: Well she never contacted me back. Just popped into my life and then disappeared off the radar again.. So this broke the camel's back. I sent her an e-mail saying I wanted my stuff back with my address and left it at that. It's over. I'm Done KE Don't worry much, relationship with that girl had ended long back just formality was left. So take it that way. Now look forward going ahead and take this end as a new begining. We never know what life has in store for us, so don't lose hope and don't feel disheartened. We can never ask someone to treat in Just manner , it depends on their conscience. cheer up
Author NightsEcho Posted July 6, 2005 Author Posted July 6, 2005 Hey Green, See the thing that gets the rise out of me was there was no need for formalities anymore. We were both moving on, doing the NC. Why leave a sweet message on my phone asking me about my family and trip. See I'm at the point where I don't even want her back. It just bugs me that she thinks she has the power to just breeze in and out of my life at her convienence. I won't but I am fighting every urge to just tell her off.....lol I guess I just need to cut this last final string...and she won't let me. Oh well, how you holding up bud?
greenhorn Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 Yeah I know it is not fair on her part to break your NC and then become indifferent and that's why I said you can't always expect others to behave in a fair manner. These are the tests of NC and you got to go ahead with these obstacles. My days are going as usual there isn't anything that I can do as well !! so that's life
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