rustyhands Posted July 28, 2016 Posted July 28, 2016 Hi everyone, I started a long distance relationship with a 27 year old lady in new York November 2015. I'm 34 from Melbourne Australia. We spoke for 3 months and I ended up going to meet her for four weeks in new York city. I returned home and 2 months later went back as we went halves in the ticket as we were crazy about each other at the time. We had a heated argument 2 weeks into the 4 week trip. I had been out for the day and met a fellow musician at a bar and let my gf know that I would be late. She was cool with it. It was getting late and I let her know when I would be back. I get back and she was not happy with me after saying it was alright to stay out even after I invited her to come out. The argument consisted of petty things such as her ocd and being very critical. I was angry and she asked me to leave. So I did. The next day she broke up with me via text message and I wrote her back thanking her for all the great times we had together and wishing her the best for the future. 4 days later I flew out of NYC to go home as I couldn't afford hotels in NYC for another 2weeks. Thinking she wanted nothing to do with me I didn't contact her for two weeks until I saw on her fb profile she had changed the pic to an old lady putting a swan into the back of a car with the title of "my future"........ It was posted just after I was originally meant to fly out that night..... Is it unreasonable that I left after she broke things off? It s been over month and I wrote her an email saying"if she wants to talk about anything on her mind I am open to it" I told her when I actually left aswell. She replied with saying she wasn't comfortable talking over the phone and to write it in email. She didn't want to tell me what was on her mind........after trying to reach out to her. I'm so confused........I love her so much. Any advice?
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