newmoon Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 Maybe someone can tell me what's going on? A guy asked me out about 3 months ago - and had been hitting on me prior to getting to that point (maybe over the course of 6 months). So, I finally said ok and took his number (didn't give mine). I texted him about a day later and he says "let's get together" and I said fine, but that was it. About a week goes by and he texts at maybe 2am with another "we should go out" message and maybe a day later I tell him "ok, PLAN a time/date and get back to me." I see him about a week later and he says "we should go out." Of course, he doesn't actually do anything about going out. Now three weeks go by and he texts again several times at 2am with more "we should get together" texts, which I plan to ignore at this point. I don't get it. Wth is this behavior all about? I don't get what type of response he's looking for and why he keeps saying 'let's get together' without actually doing a darn thing to make it happen. I'm just assuming he already has a gf and shoots off messages to other women at random when he's bored?
PegNosePete Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 He's clearly not interested otherwise he would put in some effort. You shouldn't concern yourself with his reasons and motivations. Just stop responding and move on. 1
Redhead14 Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 Maybe someone can tell me what's going on? A guy asked me out about 3 months ago - and had been hitting on me prior to getting to that point (maybe over the course of 6 months). So, I finally said ok and took his number (didn't give mine). I texted him about a day later and he says "let's get together" and I said fine, but that was it. About a week goes by and he texts at maybe 2am with another "we should go out" message and maybe a day later I tell him "ok, PLAN a time/date and get back to me." I see him about a week later and he says "we should go out." Of course, he doesn't actually do anything about going out. Now three weeks go by and he texts again several times at 2am with more "we should get together" texts, which I plan to ignore at this point. I don't get it. Wth is this behavior all about? I don't get what type of response he's looking for and why he keeps saying 'let's get together' without actually doing a darn thing to make it happen. I'm just assuming he already has a gf and shoots off messages to other women at random when he's bored? He's stringing you along . . . keeping you for booty calls when his girlfriend isn't around or when he's bored. Ditch this guy if you're hoping to have a relationship with someone. If you're ok with booty calls, great, he's your man. He hasn't planned anything . . . yet. It'll be on HIS schedule. 1
smackie9 Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 When you hear "lets get together....or let's hang out sometime" don't take it seriously. You want to hear what you want to hear....."I would like to take you out for dinner and drinks, how's Saturday?" Anything less than that brush them aside. 5
Toodaloo Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 Some guys just like to think they are all that and can "get any girl they want". Stop responding he will soon go away. Its not worth the time or energy to actually try and get a date out of this guy. Its not going to happen. You know those women who like to have all those guys around and keep flirting madly and tease and then flake on them and get all silly? He is the male version of one of those. 3
CryForNoOne Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 He sounds like he's 19 going on 12. Don't waste your time by even dignifying him with any further responses. It's douches like this that give guys a bad rep... 3
leogirl876 Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 Next please!!! Seriously, don't waste your time with a guy that keeps saying we should get together, and definitely don't talk to a guy that texts or calls you at 2am! That's booty call behavior and that's what he's looking for. Ignore him! 1
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