Dente Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 A few months back i asked a girl that works in the same building i am for drinks she said sure but flaked out at the last minute her was reasonsable and she apologize in person with a hug and said we can reschedule i told her sure just let me know when she never did. I was indifferent to the outcome and just let it go. I would see her from time to time in the hallways of the building we work in but i was small talk really quick like it didnt bother me which it didnt. She was walking in the cafe and she came up to me and started talking and we were talking for a few good 20 mins it was a interesting convo and i asked her out again she said ya we never got to chance to hang out i told her how about next week. She said sure thursday we get some martinies or something. I said sure ill meet you over there? She said ya. So my question is Im gonna text her the day of the date and tell her the place and time because i didnt mention it. And should i be texting her trying chat with her on the phone ? Instead in person someone told me that the phone is to set dates only.. Also lets say i buy her coffee in the morning can i bring her coffee or like lunch or that too much acting like a nice guy. Because on both occasions i set the date and would not text her no more.. I sound silly but my dating game is so off any tips.
Author Dente Posted July 26, 2016 Author Posted July 26, 2016 Are you trying to get rejected twice? Well no of course not but her reason for flaking was due to her friends death which actually was true.
CryForNoOne Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 This is very simple. Don't text her the day of the date to set the place and time. That's rude. People are busy and don't want to have their schedule in limbo until last minute waiting on you. Text her at least a couple days before and make the conversation direct, short, and sweet. End with something simple and positive like "Great! Looking forward to it." DON'T buy her coffee before the date, DON'T buy her lunch before the date, and DON'T text her about anything else in between. You'll come off as desperate or needy. Since you already kind of know her, the stranger danger factor is out of the way. So set the date in the evening and something somewhat romantic (but don't go overboard though). When you go somewhere that's got a nice mood and drinks it makes your intentions very clear and puts her in the right mindset. Coffee or lunch are lame to me unless you're complete strangers. Anyway, my 2 cents. The above works very well for me...
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