AT15 Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 I kept trying to reconcile with my ex boyfriend. Well, all it lead to was fwb and him doing as he pleased. I told him I had met someone else and he flipped out and came to my night job, to say hi. I guess he felt he was losing control. I slipped back into the darkness for a few weeks, disillusioned and in denial of what had become of my place in his life. At the end of the day I have suffered. And it wasn't worth it. I traded my self esteem and sense of self to be devalued all to feel loved by this one person. It's pretty sad. I regret it completely. Just go no contact. Because if you let him/her back in they will only run over you. 9
kristyxxbrickley24 Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 I did the same over the weekend. I don't need his validation. I missed him and just wanted to see him? Why I don't **^^ know. I told him I met a new guy too and that we're talking. He told me to stop talking to him then. I said fine I will. After all- he's the one who cheated on me. I can do whatever the hell i want please to. He didn't care about me before and he don't need to care about me now. Way better without him. We are still talking but nothing else going on.
Giggles666 Posted July 29, 2016 Posted July 29, 2016 Stop talking to him....I read your story and as an objective outsider you are only setting yourself up for some real bad heartbreak. You are in control and the second you talk to him, he gains control. Screw him, he's not treated you right. No contact the guy. 1
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