Raidai Posted July 25, 2016 Posted July 25, 2016 (edited) Hi there, So I met this girl during school two months or so ago, didn't really talk much but it was nice when we did. She added me on FB and we started talking a lot, and eventually made meet-up where we hung out together talking and me teaching her how to skate for a few hours. All chill. Then two weeks later or so we made plans to hung out again, we decided to eat pizza somewhere after she was done working and we went to the cinema. Nothing really happened, aside from leaning in together at some point during the movie to whisper and watch, and we just hugged each other bye after it and that's it. A week later we made plans again and went out to the boulevard/beach, caught pokemon (haha) and during that time we just chilled like always, however I sat next to her and held her as it was cold. She responded well with it. When we went to the movie that day I touched her hand and held it as we walked, she didn't reject it so... and we both squeezed/stroked it a bit during it. And at the movie we did it again for a long period, and I also stroked her leg/knee a bit, just relaxing I guess. But I never made a move to kiss as I didn't really get that vibe. I'm worried that I might have come off too strong and she isn't interested in it, yet she went along with it, didn't reject it and also stroked my hand and such.. Now it's been a week, she was at camp, we barely talked, and if it was it's short answers. Did I come off too strong and did she only see me as a friend? I don't know.. She has something from me still which I should pick up, I just reminded her. So when we meet again should I ask why it feels weird and we talk less and all? Or wait how she responds/acts and just keep my distance? I think confronting her and asking her so I atleast get a clear answer and can close this issue might be better though. Cause I'm kinda done overthinking, lol. Edited July 25, 2016 by Raidai
DramaInPajamas Posted July 25, 2016 Posted July 25, 2016 Just let whatever is going happen come about naturally. If you make an issue of it, she may feel more uncomfortable.
winny Posted July 25, 2016 Posted July 25, 2016 Dont confront... you were never officially dating. When you meet her.. be super cool and ask her how camp was and tell her what you have been up to... make it sound exciting... not like you were thinking about her all the time.... if she talks to you nicely and seems open then ask her to hangout again... if she seems cold then just leave it there.... 1
Author Raidai Posted July 25, 2016 Author Posted July 25, 2016 Dont confront... you were never officially dating. When you meet her.. be super cool and ask her how camp was and tell her what you have been up to... make it sound exciting... not like you were thinking about her all the time.... if she talks to you nicely and seems open then ask her to hangout again... if she seems cold then just leave it there.... Good point. Although I did say when we made plans for hanging out the third time; 'let's do a pokemon go and movie date' but yeah, I guess so. I guess I should just go with the flow when I see her again, keep my distance a bit and see how it goes and how she'll be.
winny Posted July 25, 2016 Posted July 25, 2016 Good point. Although I did say when we made plans for hanging out the third time; 'let's do a pokemon go and movie date' but yeah, I guess so. I guess I should just go with the flow when I see her again, keep my distance a bit and see how it goes and how she'll be. I know what you mean and it sucks when people pull back after showing interest leaving you all confused. But give her benefit of doubt once and see what happens.
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