ballinnc Posted July 25, 2016 Posted July 25, 2016 Well i was friends with a girl for a year and it started off completely platonic we would text all the time and things were great and we got close. We would even joke about being being married and future kids all as a joke but ultimately i ended up having feelings for her. So in February i told her how i felt and she felt the same way and we went on a date to see a movie and it was magical. Then 2 weeks later she decides she dosen't like me that way and wants to stay friends and because i valued what we had and we agreed. originally i thought it was just a little crush but the following months i would end up growing to love her. We would have arguments every now and then but it didn't change how i felt. Then last month i told her i wanted to have a relationship with her after a movie and drinks and sh said she was ready and we were making out the entire night. Then 2 days later she told me after a convo with her best friend she told me shes not ready for a relationship and i should just accept it. Me being dumb i agreed and tried being friends with her but this time the texts wouldn't be the same as they previously were. Yesterday we were suppose to watch a movie but i didnt hear from her i texted her twice and called didnt get a response so i let it go. I texted her this morning about what happen yesterday didn get a response and then i texted her a few hours later saying "i cant believe you did this" and she texted saying she left her phone at the bar friday and that i believe she has a personal vendetta against me and got upset about me saying "i cant believe you did this" she didnt think about our plans or how i felt. So i just wanna if i ha this coming and should i finally move on 1
Satu Posted July 25, 2016 Posted July 25, 2016 The truth: You can't be lovers, and you can't be friends. QED. Move on. Take care. 4
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