Bklyngirl Posted June 29, 2005 Posted June 29, 2005 So I have a question. There's this guy who's good friends with a male friend/coworker of mine. We've hung out a few times, no romantic interest at all....anyway last weekend we were hanging out and one thing led to another and we slept together...it was amazing, much better than I could have ever imagined. We exchanged numbers..but knowing he's a bit on the shy side never thought he'd call. Well three days (two if you count the morning I left his place) he called..didn't say too much.."just calling to say hi..maybe I'll talk to you later I'll definitely see you Friday( he usually comes to see the guy I work with on Friday). Well I called back left a message telling him I'd see him on Friday ..etc.. Sorry this is so long, but finally getting to my question...do you think he called to make things not awkward between us or could he possibly have interest in me? I think I really like him and am not sure what to do.
Curt Posted June 29, 2005 Moderators Posted June 29, 2005 Originally posted by Bklyngirl So I have a question. There's this guy who's good friends with a male friend/coworker of mine. We've hung out a few times, no romantic interest at all....anyway last weekend we were hanging out and one thing led to another and we slept together...it was amazing, much better than I could have ever imagined. We exchanged numbers..but knowing he's a bit on the shy side never thought he'd call. Well three days (two if you count the morning I left his place) he called..didn't say too much.."just calling to say hi..maybe I'll talk to you later I'll definitely see you Friday( he usually comes to see the guy I work with on Friday). Well I called back left a message telling him I'd see him on Friday ..etc.. Sorry this is so long, but finally getting to my question...do you think he called to make things not awkward between us or could he possibly have interest in me? I think I really like him and am not sure what to do. Well, he either: (a). is genuinely interested, (b). is not genuinely interested, and is attempting to make things a little less awkward. ©. was just getting ready for a possible second "booty call?" I dunno ... tis a little too soon to know for sure. Curt
Becki Posted June 29, 2005 Posted June 29, 2005 he likes you! why would he want to make things awkard?!
laRubiaBonita Posted June 29, 2005 Posted June 29, 2005 Whoa!!!! STOP! You said "We've hung out a few times, no romantic interest at all..." So you are gonna use this guy for sex? Because, basically that was when you suddenly liked him "I think I really like him and am not sure what to do. why not just tell him you ae not looking to have a relationship right now, but really had a good time the other night and wouldn't mind hanging out again. Basically FWB. IMO, it is a tab bit more respectable, and take into his account HIS feelings too.
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