nb123 Posted July 24, 2016 Posted July 24, 2016 Hi, There is this girl I run into every now and then (through friends and family). We get along very well. However, I have realised: 1) We have completely different political views (I have noticed this from some of the stuff she posts on facebook). I almost despise some of these views. 2) We are both in very demanding careers and any kids etc would suffer. But I still want her so bad. I can't figure out why. I do respect her a lot due to what she has achieved in her career (and her field is one I ultimately want to end up in). Maybe that has something to do with it? I also really love some shared values we have (other than the few (but important to me) differing political views we have. TLDR version : we have conflicting political views, we would be too busy to raise a happy family, we would not make a good couple yet I still want her so bad. How do I stop viewing her through rose tinted glasses? Cheers all.
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