GSavage400 Posted July 23, 2016 Posted July 23, 2016 i just turned 18 years old and i want to start dating around and seek a girlfriend. i am a black male who usually looks for women who are intelligent, fun, open, and somebody i can truly bond with emotionally. i prefer black women but i am down to be with somebody that is not the same race as i am. women my age seem to ''play games'' and want men who are not right for them at all. i have been rejected for sincerely wanting to get to know a woman who is my age. i want to know you and build with you. i have been told that i should seek older women, but i feel that older women would not have interest in me because of my age. i'm just getting started in life while they are more established. also older women seem to prefer men around there age range. peace
basil67 Posted July 23, 2016 Posted July 23, 2016 I have a 17yo daughter and from what I see, and I think you're wrong about women your age playing games. Sure, some girls do - but it's far from a majority. My daughter and her peers seem to choose steady guys who can offer a loving relationship. That said, I would imagine that some male and female 18yos haven't had the life experience to figure out what's important in a relationship. They still may be caught up in thinking that looks or how high one sits in the social pecking order is important. You're already at in front of these guys and girls. You've still got loads of time. just keep hanging out in mixed gender groups and going to social events where girls are.
preraph Posted July 23, 2016 Posted July 23, 2016 My best advice to you is to put yourself in social situations often, like any activities you enjoy, and church, school, etc., but then instead of focusing on the woman in the room you think is hot, you need to stop looking at her because every other guy is looking at her, and just keep your eyes open so you don't miss signs of interests from any women who have their eye on you. They may just look your way or smile or come stand near you hoping you'll say something. Women will put themselves in your path if they think they possibly might have some interest in you. So pay attention to the ones who come around you or convey friendliness and don't get caught up just staring at the big catch in the room and you'll do a lot better. If you meet a woman doing some activity you have a passion for (music, sports, bowling, film) you will have a natural starting point to start a conversation and something to bond over. Good luck.
PogoStick Posted July 24, 2016 Posted July 24, 2016 Nah, you should date women your age. At 18 you're very inexperienced. Older women who take you in are more likely using you for your youthful body, and innocence. The problem with girls your age is they are dumb and unpredictable...but so are the guys. Live and learn until you can make for better relationships a few years down the road.
leogirl876 Posted July 24, 2016 Posted July 24, 2016 Nah, you should date women your age. At 18 you're very inexperienced. Older women who take you in are more likely using you for your youthful body, and innocence. The problem with girls your age is they are dumb and unpredictable...but so are the guys. Live and learn until you can make for better relationships a few years down the road. What's wrong with that? : Maybe he'd like to learn a few things so he'll know more later down the road!
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