Whose wrong here

[Freespirited12]

Okay I met this guy 3 1/2 years ago and we were seeing each other everyday. we both had an addiction problem and he urged me to go to rehab. When I got out I noticed other women's things at his apartment. He said I was crazy and seeing things. Long story short I found out who she was and he said he was just her friend and he was helping her out she was homeless. A lot of drama for over a year now because he keeps letting her take showers and stay with him there. I just found out again and told him it is disrespectful of my feelings for him to continue to do that. And he says I am wrong there is nothing between them. Am I wrong

[CarrieT]

He said I was crazy and seeing things.

That is known as gas lighting. Google it.

 

And he says I am wrong there is nothing between them. Am I wrong

You are not wrong. He has been lying to you about her from the get-go.

 

Time to move on from what is apparently a toxic relationship.

[preraph]

He wouldn't have lied about it to begin with if it was innocent. Move on. You'd probably need to anyway to stay sober.