Nvragain Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 hello all, so I'm a mid 30's single guy who's always up for a good time. About six months ago ( we will call her Stella) was hired at my company. She and I hit it off as friends and she would ask to ride with me on sales visits in my district. I found her very attractive but didn't act on it because she was married. We always had a good time when we did things with each other at work. Well, about 3 months ago I told Stella that I was going to the beach with friends for the weekend. On the Thursday before I left she told me that she, her husband and her in laws would also be at the beach that weekend. We joked about meeting up and getting drunk but I didnt take her to seriously. The second night of my trip she text me and asked if I'd like to meet up for a drink. I said yes thinking that her husband would be with her. We set a time and a place, she however showed up alone. We went to a very crowded and popular bar where we both drank way to much. Then, it happened. I kissed her, at first I thought wtf did I just do but then, she kissed me back. The night ended with us back at my hotel and her not leaving until 5 am. I felt horrible the next day. I'd never been a part of something like that before. She text me and we talked about what had happened. We agreed that it was a bad idea and that it was a one time thing. About two weeks later she text me on a Saturday night asking what I was up to. I told her that I was at a dance club with some friends and told her where we were. She showed up and of course history repeted it's self. After that night we started seeing each other out side if work at least a couple of times a week. I was caught up in it and totally fell for her. The times when we were with each other were so good that I just didn't see how it wasn't fate. The times that I knew she was with him were much different. This lasted for about 3 months before she decided to end it. I knew that it was wrong the entire time. If I could go back and undo it I would. My reason for posting this is to warn anyone who is thinking about having an affair of any kind. You will hurt! Even if you get the guy or girl in the end you will not trust them and they will not trust you. If you are in a relationship and want someone else then end the relationship. Now she and I see each other everyday at work, we speak like co-workers do and try to act like nothing ever happened. I care about her very much, in fact I'd even say I love her. I know however that it's a waste of time. Do your self a favor, don't cross that line. It's there to protect you, not to keep you from having fun or from getting your needs met.
Clay Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 Hopefully someone told the husband so he can get away from her. 1
BetrayedH Posted July 23, 2016 Posted July 23, 2016 Hopefully someone told the husband so he can get away from her. Sounds pretty unlikely, Clay. It's always sad to read these "revelations" that people have about cheating or participating in the betrayal of someone, only to have them fall short of actually doing the right thing by the person that was betrayed. The OP wants to feel like he's done the right thing and brings us this cautionary tale but in the end, he didn't really learn the important lesson. The husband is left the fool and the recipient of some other guy's semen.
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