mikeylo Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 If you are dating or married, what are the things that you love or hate about your partner? About my wife :I hate it when she goes on and on about something or someone that bothers her.She loves to talk ! When I wake up after a while, she is still talking about the issue.In my pov its not a big deal but I lend an ear anyway.If its a genuine big issue, I offer my view and then begins another marathon of talking.I nod and she talks non stop She doesnt join me to Car wash , yard work.It would be fun together. She gets her hair done at salon too often.I like her natural hair but she wont let them be and colors them different shades. She doesnt like to exercise.She is in shape but doesnt like to hit the gym. She watches too many romantic movies and expects me to be like the hero! What I love about her? Everything else,lol Its friday.So yeah, what do you guys love or hate ? Ive got more but thats from top of my head. 1
Gloria25 Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 Woah dude, sounds like the things that you posted about your wife are quite normal....so maybe the use of the word "hate" is a bit extreme? I mean cuz I'm in shape too, but me, Dr. Laura and many others don't wake up saying "Yippee, I get to run four miles today, lift this that, and get all tired, sore, and hot. We have our daya where we all dread the gym/working out. About the hair/nails. Count your blessings that she cares enough to look beautiful for you. Many wives get lazy and let grooming drop to the waistside. And yes, now that I'm seeing a guy, I don't let my nails go past a week without doing something with them when usually I'll let them sit for two/three weeks without work on them. Talking? Yep, we women are communicators. Even me, who is quiet, find myself talking a lot with my current guy at times. And, outdoor stuff (ie car washing, landscaping)? I think I'm one of the few women who do this on the regular without complaints and I actually like it sometimes. But nah, your average woman isn't gonna like many outdoor labors like that. Anywho, my current guy? I hate communication with him. I don't know if it's age, unsaid expectations of our RL, the stress he's having cuz of his studies, me sending mixed signals...but, we have different communication styles/expectations and it creates a lot of friction. I believe that I shouldn't have to raise certain things with him when it comes to communication. Love? Oh gosh, so far I like everything else about him. He's handsome, tall, fit, humble, smart, sweet, excellent in bed, likes doggies (well, I hate that he lets them in the bed...my boy dog takes over my recliner chair and that's as far as it goes for me), he cooks, and plays instruments. 1
S_A Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 (edited) Things I hate about my partner: Does not put the toothpaste's cap back on after using it. Things I love about my partner: Everything else. This isn't me trying to be cute or funny or whatever. The above hate is really all I got on her. Edit: It's not like we are in the honeymoon phase or whatever and I'm seeing her through rose-colored glasses. We've been together for years. Edited July 22, 2016 by S_A 3
S_A Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 (edited) And, outdoor stuff (ie car washing, landscaping)? I think I'm one of the few women who do this on the regular without complaints and I actually like it sometimes. But nah, your average woman isn't gonna like many outdoor labors like that. I find that you wash your car to be pretty hot. And I'm not saying that because I imagine you doing it half-naked or whatever. I actually assuming you are properly clothed when you do it. I just find it hot for some weird reason. If I see a girl washing her car in the neighborhood, I'll definitely sneak in some looks! Edited July 22, 2016 by S_A
Gloria25 Posted July 23, 2016 Posted July 23, 2016 Things I hate about my partner: Does not put the toothpaste's cap back on after using it. Things I love about my partner: Everything else. This isn't me trying to be cute or funny or whatever. The above hate is really all I got on her. Edit: It's not like we are in the honeymoon phase or whatever and I'm seeing her through rose-colored glasses. We've been together for years. Why not put the cap back on the toothpaste? Arrrrrr!!!! Isn't it funny how after years with someone probably things that annoy you can still be like cute?
Gloria25 Posted July 23, 2016 Posted July 23, 2016 I find that you wash your car to be pretty hot. And I'm not saying that because I imagine you doing it half-naked or whatever. I actually assuming you are properly clothed when you do it. I just find it hot for some weird reason. If I see a girl washing her car in the neighborhood, I'll definitely sneak in some looks! No, me landscaping and/or washing my vehicle is far from sexy. Oh gosh, one day my current guy came and I was just wrapping up some landscaping and I looked and smelled like a holy mess. Now, him still being able to get a hard on after that is a good sign I guess 1
Author mikeylo Posted July 23, 2016 Author Posted July 23, 2016 It was more of a rant . She got her hair colored as purple and orange. Looks nice, anyway ! I guess after sometime has passed, some of the quirks we get used to and others annoy the hell out of us. She talks too much !
S_A Posted July 24, 2016 Posted July 24, 2016 Why not put the cap back on the toothpaste? Arrrrrr!!!! She has not been able to give me a reason til this very day!
Shepp Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 What i love about her: everything. her eyes, her laugh, her sense of humour, the way she can talk to anyone, her independance, the way she plays pool with the weirdest bridge ive ever seen, her out of tune singing, her ability to make more facial expressions than anyone i know including that eye roll she gives me all the time. I love everything she does simply because i love her One of the things i love the very most is the way she sees the world. She isnt bound by the ordinary things that bind most people, she sees limitless possibliities, she doesnt just see outside the box she doesnt even see a box. I love the way she makes me see the world differently when im with her, she pushes me out of my comfort zone and opens my mind. And i love the fact that she is my childrens mother and that they will benifit from her outlook, her sense of adventure is infectious and they will be adveturous and maganetic and full of life just like her. What i hate: She will never see herself the way i see her. She has a way of finding beauty in the world, she lights up everyone in her presense, but shes so hard on herself. You wouldnt know it but she beats herself up inwardly. She doesnt realise how amazing she is. 1
T-16bullseyeWompRat Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 I love almost everything about my wife..... The one thing I can't stand is that the second I come home from work, she is talking my ear off. Like damn woman can I get out of my work cloths, grab a drink, sit down for a few minutes, and unwind a bit please? I listen to people talk and try to offer solutions all day long at work. Then the second, like my other foot isn't in the door yet, the second I walk in its "hey! Blah blah blah kids doctors appointment, blah blah blah what do you think of this idea? Blah blah blah I need an oil change. Blah blah blah my mom did this can you believe it? Let's discuss everything right this second!!!" I've told her before this bugs me. She will stop for a day or two, then it's right back to it. It's like "babe, I would love to talk to you about this stuff, but not the second I get home from work. Let me change, let me sit down a minute, maybe grab a beer and unwind for just a moment before you launch into your list of things to tell me and discuss with me." I dont think this will ever change though. She works around kids all day, so adult conversation is lacking in her life. She needs a girlfriend she can call. Any of you ladies game? Please?!? Lol
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