ricardomtz Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 It's just so addicting. I can't help but to just go on her twitter and just see everything about her new life. It's been two months and her life is so much better. She has so many friends now, is in love with her new boyfriend who she left me for. Going to a great school. She just doesn't need me like I need her. Today she tweeted "I'm glad life got me out of a dead end relationship and put me with someone amazing." and it just kills me on the inside. I don't follow her or anything, I just read her page without having a twitter.
CarrieT Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 Block, block, block. The only way to heal is to block her existence so that you CAN'T look. Every single time you even peak at her social media, you are scraping away at the scab and causing more hurt to yourself. 1
Emem Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 It's just so addicting. I can't help but to just go on her twitter and just see everything about her new life. It's been two months and her life is so much better. She has so many friends now, is in love with her new boyfriend who she left me for. Going to a great school. She just doesn't need me like I need her. Today she tweeted "I'm glad life got me out of a dead end relationship and put me with someone amazing." and it just kills me on the inside. I don't follow her or anything, I just read her page without having a twitter. Do not go there. Social media is the WORST. It will kill you!
deadparrot Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 I'll be honest, I've never quite understood the (apparently widespread) phenomenon of stalking exes you're not yet over on social media. The idea that I'd log on unknowingly one day and see them with someone new would feel like a punch in the gut and really hamper my healing process, and why do that to myself? I've always immediately unfriended and blocked exes, simply because I need that time to heal and to do that, they effectively need to disappear off the face of the earth to the greatest extent possible.
Michelle ma Belle Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 First, I agree that the only way to heal is to BLOCK and DELETE everything that has to do with her! Second, NEVER trust social media! It's essentially a highlight reel of people's lives. Half the crap posted on there is just a pathetic attempt to convince everyone including themselves they are happier than they really are. All too often it's complete bullsh*t.
AmericanIdiots Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 Yeah i know how that feels man. I dumped my ex gf and got with two girls after her. i don't know why i let her go, she was honestly the best girl i've ever been with. I find out from my father she has a new man now and even though i'm with someone else now, it's killing me on the inside. I look at her facebook and see all these pics of her smiling with her new man, it hurts like hell
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