muggins Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 So, I met a girl at a work party last weekend the chemistry was incredible and we ended up going back to hers. We had amazing sex all night and again in the morning. Anyway Tuesday roles round and I messages her on the work messager we talk back and forth for a while but she seemed a bit disinterested. I left it a few days, and today she messaged me and I feel it was my chance to ask her out but didn't. What do you ladies think she's thinking? Do you think I've missed the boat on this one?
CarrieT Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 Should have asked her out BEFORE having sex. Maybe it wasn't good for her... You may never know. 1
Author muggins Posted July 22, 2016 Author Posted July 22, 2016 Well that's helpful, thanks. Lol. Anyone else.
sdj1991 Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 She might not be interested but you wont know unless you ask her, if you like her and feel you get on well, ask her out before she feels you are not interested
Gloria25 Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 It's called a "hook-up". Why would you take this girl so serious? She met you, a stranger, and had sex with you and didn't know you from Adam. If it wasn't you that nite, probably would have been someone else. I don't think that you're on her mind at all. Look, I told my nephew/brother years ago to treat a lady like a lady and H like a H. In other words, next time if you're looking for more, don't jump in bed with someone the nite you meet them and don't put a pig on a pedestal. I mean, you're here posting about her like she has all these redeeming qualities and you only know her for one night. Yeah, in the movies they make it look cool...like guy meets gal, they have like mind blowing sex on the first nite (or 2nd date) and they both orgasm - AT THE SAME TIME....wooo!!! - and the next day, he asks her out and by the end of the movie they're soul mates walking down the isle and she's wearing a white dress and everything just falls into place. Ok, NOT. Life isn't the movies. Good luck making someone lasting, valuable and all that with someone who you hooked up with. You probably have horny-googles right now cuz you got a taste. Calm down, rub out a few and don't put a pig on a pedestal.
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