winny Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 Starting out as friend doesnt mean she has friend zoned you... it means she doesnt wanna go to your bedroom n sleep with you immediately... go out with her and her friends and be cool n fun and make her feel comfortable.... and go for the kiss again soon....
PogoStick Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 You need to stop reading into what she says. What she says about 6 months from now is meaningless. Hell, she could have a boyfriend by then. Then you'll still be left as the friend who validates her ego. To me, she sounds young, like a girl who has learned that flaunting her attractiveness/sexuality can get men's attention. She enjoys the manipulation that she is capable of (even if it's not intentionally malicious). Instead, judge her by her actions. Do you hold hands? Hug? Kiss? Go on intimate dates? Have sex? Yes, she MIGHT mean what she says, but it's all talk until her actions give confirmation. Don't play her games. If she gives you runarounds, excuses, etc, then be quick to move on and not play along. Plus, it shifts the power back in your favor. If she's at all interested, she'll feel pulled to you because you'll be the guy who walks away and isn't affected by her manipulation.
PogoStick Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 And let me give you an additional perspective. If she wants to "start as friends", then start chasing another woman. You're in no way committed to her "as friends". It's the smartest move you can make here.
BaileyB Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 I think she really likes you but she is either not confident, and/or wanting to go slow with the physical. It doesn't mean it won't happen... If you like her, give her a little time and help her to feel comfortable with you.
Author Rexxy Posted August 6, 2016 Author Posted August 6, 2016 Okay so i got back from my 2 week holiday and this girl invited me to a house party so I went with her group of friends. The whole night she couldn't take her hands off me. She was rubbing my shoulder, grabbing my arm, hugging me, leaning her head on me, was always around me, and did what she could do to team up with me in the drinking games. People at the party were asking how long I've known her for because we seemed to be really close and had great chemistry, which we did. We've only known each other for a few weeks. We slept in the tent together with her friends. We spooned and she grabbed my hand to hold it during the night. But I still haven't kissed her. I'm really confused on what she wants and how I should react to this. Should I ask her on a date again for one last try before moving on?
joseb Posted August 6, 2016 Posted August 6, 2016 How come you didn't at least kiss her if you slept spooning her?
Author Rexxy Posted August 6, 2016 Author Posted August 6, 2016 How come you didn't at least kiss her if you slept spooning her? I don't know if we drank too much but it didn't cross my mind and only now I regret not doing that...It's like I really enjoyed spooning her and holding her hand to even think about kissing her. It's really unlike me not to go for a kiss but until that night we had hardly touched each other so I was really enjoying the attention if that makes sense. I can't really explain why I didn't go for a kiss, really unlike me. But that's in the past so how should I go from now?
gypsymess Posted August 7, 2016 Posted August 7, 2016 I can be totally into someone and not want to kiss on the first date. If she is still making plans and talking/texting you, you're good. If by the third date not a peck at least, then I might be worried.
Author Rexxy Posted August 9, 2016 Author Posted August 9, 2016 So I sent her a text today saying Me: Once you get back from Vegas I would like to take you on a date, if you'd like? Her: Lol you still want to take me on a date after what happened on the weekend!? (She drank too much aand started vomiting all through the morning which I witnessed) Me: Yep, only if you want to though. Everyone has a rough night every once in a while haha Her: After vegas would great add me on snapchat What do you guys think
deep_night Posted August 9, 2016 Posted August 9, 2016 my guess is that she likes you! us women usually don't go around touching guys we aren't attracted to. i think it's sweet that you're both kinda shy. next time, take her at a romantic outdoor spot (after your date) and hug her. then without letting her go completely look at her eyes and cup her face with your hands. then give her ONE very soft kiss (without tongue) and pull back. see how she reacts, and keep it at that for the night. then hold her hand and walk her home.
Vado Posted August 9, 2016 Posted August 9, 2016 If she's touching you a lot, bumping in to you, you name it, go for the kiss. If she rejects again, than gif her the art of missing you, cause than she is a cocktease.
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