Alex297 Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 I've been dating this girl for about 2 months. The only social media account I have is Facebook. She has a Twitter, so I decided to skim through it. It seems as though she is very into women's behinds and retweets several naked pictures of them. I would consider her a freak in the sheets and she does have male humor, so maybe it's purely sexual. I've asked her about it, and she said she only dates men. Why am I nervous? Background: Her parents are divorced because her mother is (now) a lesbian. I have a sibling who came out when she was 24. This girl is only 22. I just don't want to get too involved, and then she decides I'm not the person for her. Maybe I'm just overreacting and jealous because my behind is nonexistent
Larryville Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 Just gonna throw this out there, dating I don’t have a real issue. However over the past several years a fairly high number of women I’ve talked to say they were or have gravitated towards “bi-curious” because they have grown tired of guys and their “crap” My dating range is roughly 45-to late 50’s or so. Curious if other guys have heard this or if other ladies here have same viewpoints. I’ve heard it enough where it does not surprise me anymore. Is it an age or stage of life thing.
jen1447 Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 ^ Most women who like women date women bc they like women, not bc they're frustrated w men. And yes I'd date a bisexual woman. 2
JustGettingBy Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 If she was open near the start of the relationship I'd be okay with it. If she tried to "hide" it repeatedly, then I'd probably end it.
TunaCat Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 I am a bisexual woman and obviously I would date another bisexual woman. This girl is still very young, trying to figure out who she is. She may decide that you aren't the one for her and her reasons may have nothing to do with you being a guy. She may have other reasons. Or she may actually realize that you are the one. Don't overthink it.
sunshine2 Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 I agree with tunacat- she is young and is trying to figure out who she is. That said, I have admired other women's bodies, but that doesn't mean I date women. I would try and relax and have fun with her and not compare yourself to women as that is a non issue.
GunslingerRoland Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 Is she even bisexual? I mean she doesn't date or have sex with women... yeah she looks at naked women, but a lot of straight women still like looking at other women.
Larryville Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 J I don’t disagree I’m just conveying and passing along what I was told by a number of women. Folks can process that however they want. I don’t care either way.
Gr8fuln2020 Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 @Larryville. I have heard some women say that frustration has led them to explore, but I really believe they already has some interest before men getting them down. I have dated a bisexual woman in the past. Beautiful and very intelligent as I recall, but that was ages ago and we had different future plans. I would again, but like some others, be at least hesitant about marrying someone who is bisexual.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 I've been dating this girl for about 2 months. The only social media account I have is Facebook. She has a Twitter, so I decided to skim through it. It seems as though she is very into women's behinds and retweets several naked pictures of them. I would consider her a freak in the sheets and she does have male humor, so maybe it's purely sexual. I've asked her about it, and she said she only dates men. Why am I nervous? Background: Her parents are divorced because her mother is (now) a lesbian. I have a sibling who came out when she was 24. This girl is only 22. I just don't want to get too involved, and then she decides I'm not the person for her. Maybe I'm just overreacting and jealous because my behind is nonexistent You are really grasping for far-out ideas. Most anybody should be able to tell you sincerely that women's behinds are more attractive than the male counterparts. Your hint of evidence means nothing at all. Some people like raw M/F sex and yet they need to think of something far different when masturbating, and they are allowed to do so without being labeled bisexual. Until she flat out tells you that she's bisexual, then don't ever give it a second thought.
phineas Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 Date yes, Marry? Hell no Brings to mind the movie Sex monster. If she wanted to go out and cruise for other women to bring home i'm game.
Redguitar35 Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 (edited) I've been dating this girl for about 2 months. The only social media account I have is Facebook. She has a Twitter, so I decided to skim through it. It seems as though she is very into women's behinds and retweets several naked pictures of them. I would consider her a freak in the sheets and she does have male humor, so maybe it's purely sexual. I've asked her about it, and she said she only dates men. Why am I nervous? Background: Her parents are divorced because her mother is (now) a lesbian. I have a sibling who came out when she was 24. This girl is only 22. I just don't want to get too involved, and then she decides I'm not the person for her. Maybe I'm just overreacting and jealous because my behind is nonexistent Oh man, I just had to comment on this! The majority of the women I have dated were openly bisexual (a lot of the traits I find attractive tend to be traits of bisexual women.) So I can speak from experience when I say I would NOT date another bisexual female. I'm not in any way prejudiced. But my experience with bisexual fems, especially young ones, is that it is very hard to keep them happy unless you're comfortable with them straying from time to time. They are always comparing their experiences with other women to their experiences with you, which puts a lot of pressure on any sort of relationship you try to maintain with with them. So, for practical reasons, I would prefer a woman who is exclusively heterosexual. Edited July 22, 2016 by Redguitar35
Erik30 Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 Date yes, serious relationship no. Exception would be if she doesn't feel the need to see women while she's with me. I wouldn't be okay with her having a gf or sleeping with girls if we're in a relationship.
alphamale Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 Maybe I'm just overreacting and jealous because my behind is nonexistent dude, if she's good in the sack keep her around
MJJean Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 And yes I'd date a bisexual woman. I wouldn't, but I'm totally hetero. I dated and married a bisexual man, though. The only thing I can say that ever concerned me is monogamy. I am a monogamist. I do not share well. In fact, I become detached emotionally and lose physical desire for men that are sexually involved with others in any way. So, I was very clear with DH that I do not give hall passes for same-sex sex. I wanted to make sure he understood being with me meant forsaking all others, permanently. He was fine with that and the rest is history.
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