jenko Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago and we had a talk 1 week later that went sour. I didn't want to end it on a bad note. I texted him telling him that I understood why he broke up with me and in a way I'm happy because I needed to work on myself and learn to love myself before I can love anyone else. I've always been jumping from relationship to relationship. All I ever wanted was for him to make me happy because I was dependent on him for my happiness. I told him all of that. When we broke up he was crying more than me. He told me he felt like he gave this relationship everything he had and he couldn't anymore. He felt defeated and felt like he lost himself. He said he loves me still and misses me and thinks about me all the time but he can't... He said this to me during our breakup and also 1 week later. The texting was a few days after finalization of break up. Him: You're an amazing person and there were many times were I felt like I was in the clouds. I appreciate everything you've done for me as well. It just wasn't our time for whatever reason. I really hope we can be friends. Me:I just really hope you keep your heart open towards me. Maybe I might think differently regarding this in a few months but I hope you can keep those good feelings I gave you in your memory and open your heart to me if the time is appropriate. Him: We've had too many good memories to just forget about you. My heart will be open. Can someone tell me what he means-- I need some insight. Thank you!
fromheart Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 He's parting ways politely, and on a good note. All you can do now is move on and take care of yourself. Don't ever be waiting for another person to feel good, take responsibility for that yourself....
ExpatInItaly Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 He clearly cares about you. But he's trying to say goodbye as nicely as possible.
Author jenko Posted July 21, 2016 Author Posted July 21, 2016 He's parting ways politely, and on a good note. All you can do now is move on and take care of yourself. Don't ever be waiting for another person to feel good, take responsibility for that yourself.... I wasn't planning on waiting for him but I do take fault in our relationship not working out. I understand that holding on to hope and moving on is very hard but I am prepared to do it. I am still going to let him go but I just wanted to see what he meant when he said his heart would be open to me.
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