tomherno Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 i have been talking to this girl for a while. she replies instantly to my messages. she studies in my uni but she lives in another country so in the summer vacation the only way of communication is texting. we hanged out several times. on her birthday i sent her funny picture i made for her. she liked it and she put it as her profile picture. a day later she sent me a text saying " hey Kevin look i put the picture you made for my birthday as profile picture". we continued to text each other but one day she read a message that i sent but she didn't reply for 24 hours. i sent her another message about a different topic and I didn't mention at all the fact that she ignored me , she replied to my message and then she said was tired on the bed the whole day. i personally didn't buy this. we continued to message and she still replies instantly. then after two weeks of instant replies again one day she ignored my text message. it shows read yet no reply after 24 hours. in these 24 hours she changed her profile picture and i thought she is not interested. i played it very cool and sent her a message joking about how she is taking too much time to respond. she responded instantly but I ignored her. one day later she sent me this " hey are you still alive?" this is confusing why when I ignored her she tries to get my attentions is she playing hard to get or not interested? what is she is expecting me to do ? a move ? what move she is waiting asking her to be my girlfriend ?
scooby-philly Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 Ok - you need to give us a little more information about yourself, how you know her, etc, - if you want us to give you more than just a knee jerk reaction. From only what you wrote - I'd sumise she's either not mature or she's tired of waiting for you to ask her out. Seriously....maybe she thinks you should know she's going to not be staying and moving back home after college so she doesn't want to date. Maybe she likes you but thinks you're moving like molasses rolling up hill. So - #1 - what do you want out of this? #2 - What do you plan to do to achieve it?
leogirl876 Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 You sound needy. Freaking out because it took her 24 hours to respond when you don't even live in the same country. Maybe she's tired of texting, and what you to ask her out on a date or do something different.
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