Don22 Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 There is a pretty woman who works with the department. She's young and I know I'm older than her. She seems really nice. I know several guys who have tried and failed to get a date with her. I tried and also failed. I know she's had a divorce a few years ago. I don't know if she's hurt from it but she won't give any guy a romantic chance with her. The only thing that I know about her is she's single. There was one good looking guy who somehow got her to meet up after work. The only thing he said later was it was a waste of time. I think she enjoys turning men down. Are some women undateable? Is there any tips to date a women like this?
Toodaloo Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Why would you want to? She has turned you down. Why not move on instead? Perhaps she just doesn't like to date guys at work. 4
carhill Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 OK, in today's environment, why would one want to date someone they don't know who doesn't want to date anyone and the only positive attribute perceived is physical beauty? Women can be undateable for many reasons, and those reasons are known only to them, if at all. Most of all, it's a choice. Accepting it can be tough but there ya go. 1
LookAtThisPOst Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 There is a pretty woman who works with the department. She's young and I know I'm older than her. She seems really nice. I know several guys who have tried and failed to get a date with her. I tried and also failed. I know she's had a divorce a few years ago. I don't know if she's hurt from it but she won't give any guy a romantic chance with her. The only thing that I know about her is she's single. There was one good looking guy who somehow got her to meet up after work. The only thing he said later was it was a waste of time. I think she enjoys turning men down. Are some women undateable? Is there any tips to date a women like this? I would tend to think this, as I come across women that have made it difficult for men to even approach them or if they do get the digits, it's always games. A male friend of mine who is a photographer was spending an extended period time with this one woman taking tons of pictures with here....seen them uploaded to FB. She's in hear early 20s and he's told me she's turned down EVERY single guy in REAL life that's attempted to ask her out, says she's too busy with other things in life. She's in college, a dating pool that if you miss out on those opportunities and graduate, your pool goes down. Of course, that's her excuse. *shrug*
Author Don22 Posted July 20, 2016 Author Posted July 20, 2016 Why would you want to? She has turned you down. People want what they can't have. I know it's stupid but there's some evolutionary reason to it. Last year there was a woman I liked. On our first date she brought up going to her place for sex. I lost all interest in her. Why not move on instead?I probably will. I can't think of anything to try. Perhaps she just doesn't like to date guys at work.Maybe.
Art_Critic Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Sounds to me that she isn't willing to fish from the company pier, of course some women are undateable as are some men, finding the right fit for both is hard... If a woman is not too far out of your league looks wise then no woman is undateable unless she is already taken. Maybe looking someplace other than work for prospects might help in your journey, most people not just women have a no fishing from the company pier policy so you are shrinking your chances of success at work.
thefooloftheyear Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Who knows???.....Maybe she's into women.....Or there could be a myriad of other reasons...some mentioned.... If she isn't into you, then who cares??....Just move on... TFY
Author Don22 Posted July 20, 2016 Author Posted July 20, 2016 OK, in today's environment, why would one want to date someone they don't know who doesn't want to date anyone and the only positive attribute perceived is physical beauty?She is very nice. That is an attribute I find very attractive. She's friendly and it's seems like might be interested in dating because she give some bait then you take the hook and she backs off and turns you down. I don't know if she's scared or confused or just enjoys turning me down. Women can be undateable for many reasons, and those reasons are known only to them, if at all. Most of all, it's a choice. Accepting it can be tough but there ya go.I just wasn't sure if single women could actually be undateable. It is tough. What really bugs me it's I did everything right as least based on this page 8 Reasons Masculine Men Are Better Lovers Than ?Nice Guys? | Thought Catalog I was really good at 2, 3, and 4. I'm not sure if they are wrong but they didn't work for me.
Michelle ma Belle Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Wow, that's a lot of assumption for someone you don't even know. Jaded much?? So she turns down men asking her out at work. Maybe she doesn't want to eat where she sh*ts. Smart move if you ask me. The fact that you guys are standing around clucking like a bunch of jaded birds is more disconcerting than the fact that she doesn't want to date any of you. Perhaps she has a sixth sense about you all. As for how to date someone 'like this'...Like what exactly? Someone who doesn't lead you on unnecessarily?? And why would you want to pursue someone who isn't interested in you? Whatever dude. 4
xxoo Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Sounds like she's trying to be friendly to her coworkers, not date them. 2
Blanco Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 What I find most troubling is that you're using Thought Catalog lists as a guide to securing women. 8
O'Malley Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 She's friendly and it's seems like might be interested in dating because she give some bait then you take the hook and she backs off and turns you down. I don't know if she's scared or confused or just enjoys turning me down. Perhaps you're reading too much into someone with a friendly and approachable nature? People who turn down advances aren't scared or confused, they're just aware that they don't have any or enough attraction to desire a further connection. All you can really glean from this is that she's not interested in either you or your coworkers. Take it in stride, you can still be friendly with her but continue on with your life. 4
elaine567 Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Woman at work, turns down offers of dates from guys she doesn't want to go out with. Of course, there must be something wrong with her???? 6
Imported Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 WHAT!, she doesn't want to date The Don or any of The Don's coworkers!!!???? Total lesbo obviously. 7
elaine567 Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 WHAT!, she doesn't want to date The Don or any of The Don's coworkers!!!???? Total lesbo obviously. Obviously... 1
Alamo657 Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 There is a pretty woman who works with the department. She's young and I know I'm older than her. She seems really nice. I know several guys who have tried and failed to get a date with her. I tried and also failed. I know she's had a divorce a few years ago. I don't know if she's hurt from it but she won't give any guy a romantic chance with her. The only thing that I know about her is she's single. There was one good looking guy who somehow got her to meet up after work. The only thing he said later was it was a waste of time. I think she enjoys turning men down. Are some women undateable? Is there any tips to date a women like this? Maybe she's smart and doesn't **** where she eats ?
AMJ Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 The Don says he asked her out and she rejected, I'm curious how that went down? Can we get a story please? Details matter! And yep, some single women are undateable. Totally off-limits. Just fuggedaboutit.
Imported Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Got to say something. If you guys think of dating and ****ting as being similar, maybe that's the problem. Sure, you should be very careful, know what you're doing and both be adults and behave like adults.
Beach Guy Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Maybe she doesn't want to eat where she sh*ts. Work is where she sh*ts? lol 1
preraph Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 To me, it just sounds like she's very picky. There are many women who would rather date no one than date someone they're not really attracted to. Move on. She's not interested. I'm sure if her dream guy came along, she'd be very interested, assuming she's into guys. 2
stillafool Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 There is a pretty woman who works with the department. She's young and I know I'm older than her. She seems really nice. I know several guys who have tried and failed to get a date with her. I tried and also failed. I know she's had a divorce a few years ago. I don't know if she's hurt from it but she won't give any guy a romantic chance with her. The only thing that I know about her is she's single. There was one good looking guy who somehow got her to meet up after work. The only thing he said later was it was a waste of time. I think she enjoys turning men down. Are some women undateable? Is there any tips to date a women like this? No this woman is just too smart to date someone she works with. Not a good idea whatsoever! If she's that attractive she more than likely already has someone in her personal life that she's interested in.
xxoo Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Flip your question for a moment. Why should she be dating the men at work?
King Me Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Well, you have the one piece of information that is important and useful to you: She doesn't want to date you. If, who and when she wants to date is not really your business, though evidently it's a thing in your work culture for you and your mates to sit around speculating about it. To that, I cannot relate. She doesn't want to date you. Full stop. 3
Author Don22 Posted July 21, 2016 Author Posted July 21, 2016 Sounds to me that she isn't willing to fish from the company pier, of course some women are undateable as are some men, finding the right fit for both is hard...Yeah maybe same company and she's not interested.
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