CarlaD93 Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 (edited) My sister and I are twins but I want to outsmart her at something for the first time. I'm tired of her always being one step ahead in almost everything ever since our younger years. She just broke up and has been dating this guy for weeks. However I liked him first and since they're not exclusive yet, I was thinking of passing out as her and slowly get him to spend time with me and perhaps make him my boyfriend. So can twins get confused? Will he think I'm her at first? He'll eventually find out it's me but by then, this would have already progressed. Edited July 20, 2016 by CarlaD93
PegNosePete Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 This is a good way to ruin your sisterly bond forever. What ever happened to sisters before misters? Why would you do something terrible to your own sister? 2
GorillaTheater Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 That's a great plan, Carla! You should totally pass yourself off as your sister in order to steal, or at least borrow, her boyfriend. Does she make more money than you? I can see some possibilities there, too. 6
Author CarlaD93 Posted July 20, 2016 Author Posted July 20, 2016 This is a good way to ruin your sisterly bond forever. What ever happened to sisters before misters? Why would you do something terrible to your own sister?We've gotten into arguments before and even physically fought each other ever since our early childhood years (the very first time it was both of us pulling a doll and telling each other ''it's mine'') but in we always end up making up the next day or so. I guess this sibling rivalry it's not new. I always end up being behind her. She's always had one of the highest GPA at school, been popular, the first one asked out on a date, etc. In my mind I always wanted to be as good as her, always wished there was something I was better at.
Author CarlaD93 Posted July 20, 2016 Author Posted July 20, 2016 (edited) That's a great plan, Carla! You should totally pass yourself off as your sister in order to steal, or at least borrow, her boyfriend. Does she make more money than you? I can see some possibilities there, too.Yes, she does. She's always been better than me at many things, even in majors. She's going to medicine school while I'm stuck with a soft major (I'm not good at complicated formulas nor hardcore math/science). I had to take a 1 year-old break because college was stressing me out. I still need another year to get my BA degree while she's already done with that. He's not her bf, well not yet. Edited July 20, 2016 by CarlaD93
Lady2163 Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Yes, she does. She's always been better than me at many things, even in majors. She's going to medicine school while I'm stuck with a soft major (I'm not good at complicated formulas nor hardcore math/science). I had to take a 1 year-old break because college was stressing me out. I still need another year to get my BA degree while she's already done with that. He's not her bf, well not yet. Here's a thought....be your own person. I ran behind my siblings and outside looking in, they make more money than I do. They have nicer houses, they have spouses and kids. They were able to get dates easily and were rarely without significant others. However, both of them are under the thumbs of their controlling spouses. One is married to a falling down drunk. The kids are useless millenials.
Zahara Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 (edited) I guess this sibling rivalry it's not new. I always end up being behind her. She's always had one of the highest GPA at school, been popular, the first one asked out on a date, etc. In my mind I always wanted to be as good as her, always wished there was something I was better at. Maybe if you stopped comparing yourself to your sister you'd be able to become your own person and accomplish goals based on your own capabilities and efforts. The only one choosing to stay in her shadow is you because you've revolved your life around her by making it a competition rather than just looking inward and defining yourself as an individual. Learn to get comfortable in your own skin. If you choose to do this, it doesn't make you better than her, infact it'll only make you feel worse about yourself. Edited July 20, 2016 by Zahara 1
GunslingerRoland Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 This is awful. But there is a good chance you are aware enough of the differences between your sister and yourself that you can pass yourself off as her, even with her boyfriend. But please don't do it, it's awful.
vanhalenfan Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Evil Twin/Good Twin complex? Don't fulfill that role. Just be yourself.
BikerAccnt Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Are you watching to many Patty Duke Re-runs? (I'm sure this is way to old a reference , a few may catch it though...)
ChickiePops Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Yes, she does. She's always been better than me at many things, even in majors. She's going to medicine school while I'm stuck with a soft major (I'm not good at complicated formulas nor hardcore math/science). I had to take a 1 year-old break because college was stressing me out. I still need another year to get my BA degree while she's already done with that. He's not her bf, well not yet. What's a 'soft' major? This idea is foul. Stop comparing yourself to her..nobody says she's going to be happier as a doctor than you are as whatever you end up being. 1
preraph Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Well, aren't you a piece of work. There's 120 million men in the U.S. alone, but the only way you can get your rocks off is to go after your sister's man? May be time to invest in a therapist. No man is worth losing family over when there are so many others to choose from, so you are motivated by sibling rivalry and need to work that out before you lose your best asset, your twin sister, and cause a rift in your whole family. 1
smackie9 Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 That kind of negativity leads to bad things which makes everything an uphill battle for you....stop focusing on her and what she is doing and live your own life and dreams. Life will only get worse for you if you continue to be a sore loser. 2
Namasteppl Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 The best way is to seduce him. Wear flirty outfits when he's around, accidentally touch him a lot, bend over in front of him when you accidentally drop stuff etc. It will eventually make him go wild that he can't hold himself back anymore.
mortensorchid Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 I am not a twin, but sweetheart, surely you know certain things about being one. You do realize that twins have a certain kind of sibling rivalry that others do not which you have displayed. You also know that this is a certain kind of fantasy for both the twins as well as the man in question, don't you? Have you done this to one another before? If so/not, I hope you feel like s*** afterward, truly. I mean, who DOES that to one another? Why don't you just steal your friend's bf / husband? You might as well.
JewelD Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Good ol sibling rivalry. I can understand how you feel, however, DO NOT screw your sister over like that. That's your blood, your twin. Sisters share a special bond. Yours is obviously not that strong if you'd even consider doing this, but it will get stronger as you get older. Messing with your sister's bf isn't going to make you 'better' than her. It actually makes you worse bc it says "I can't get my own, so im going to pretend to be you". In all reality, your sister is not better than you at everything, but you're insecure so rather than focusing on your strengths, you're worried about how well your sister is doing. Focus on bettering yourself.
Nightwriter Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Is this real? It sounds like the making of a movie of the week. Consider your integrity, please don't lose it. That will be a source of regret when you look back on your life. 1
Lobe Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 I'm just going to speak up on behalf of the BOY here, who may in fact be genuinely attracted to your sister because of her personality, intelligence, goals, perspective on life. You cannot discard his feelings or speak of him like he's nothing more than a sex-crazed buffoon who can be tricked into sleeping with someone who herself admits she is nothing like her sister. If some twisted sick plot like this was pulled on my son I'd be out for blood. She some respect for this boy, your sister, and most importantly for yourself. Petty squabbles over a boy aren't worth losing a sister over.
tinkerbell16 Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 My sister and I are twins but I want to outsmart her at something for the first time. I'm tired of her always being one step ahead in almost everything ever since our younger years. She just broke up and has been dating this guy for weeks. However I liked him first and since they're not exclusive yet, I was thinking of passing out as her and slowly get him to spend time with me and perhaps make him my boyfriend. So can twins get confused? Will he think I'm her at first? He'll eventually find out it's me but by then, this would have already progressed. Wow... just wow. People like you exist? Seriously what of your loyalty to family? And to trick a guy to like you by pretending to be your sister? It's like an afternoon special movie. Diabolical. Wow... just wow.
bubbaganoosh Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 In my mind I always wanted to be as good as her, always wished there was something I was better at. Well so far with the way your thinking your not doing a real good job. If you go through this stupid idea of yours, your not only wrecking your relationship with your sister but with your whole family. None of them will want anything to do with you and when the chips are down and you need support, most can count on their family..............except you that is willing to throw that all away for some guy that in two months you wont even remember his name. Want to be a better person? Grow up. Act like an adult. Do the right thing. Stop being so petty. If you think your sister is going to take a step back and dumb herself down just to be your equal, then your living in space mountain. Thank God your not triplets or quads.
Ami1uwant Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 Save this for a time you want to help your sister and really screw with her bf at the time.
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