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Hello all,

 

Just need so advise about my relationship that my ex gf and i had,

I will try to keep it short

We meet over two years ago and hit it of straight away had amazing times, went out/stayed in done all the thing couples do, we went away to a wedding in Greece out of this world, there was no problems what so ever... I done everything for this girl paid her loans of bought her things that she wanted, even help her out with jobs etc. treated her like the way she wanted to be treated after her up bringing (she is 29 and I am 34). we talked about a family, house and getting married

but she never said thank you and appreciated the things i did for her this started to bug me but i still cared for her and helped her, In June this year 2016 it come to a point were i went onto a dating site and talked to people, (but did not go on to meet anyone) everyone vents in there own way, She found out and ended it i was up front with her and said yes i was no liars or anything, we did not talk for 2 weeks, I texted her but no replay, just this week we met up and lunch and she said she went on 2 dates, i could not take this and left, we spoke on the phone and she said a few more things ,and met again 2 days later, it all come out and i found out, she met a lad after a week of splitting up and she went out on her birthday with him and ended up dating again, and lied to my face more then 4 times about things and him, then she wanted to work it out with me (we have to build trust up again and so) next day she rang and said she cant do it, then day after she wantes to, next day she is defending this lad on the phone to me saying its not nice to say things about him?, then she wants to work it out, Then last night she sent me a message saying this is the end of us, and blocked my texts and call and even whats app (she has had me blocked on facebook from june, 3 mins later she got this lad back on facebook after she said she does not want to be with him, she said she does not like him last week and she only went on dates to get back at me? no phone call just one text

 

I know there is more to this man and her, but she will not say, I love this girl to bits and would love to make this work

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Do you like to be used as a toy? Ask yourself that because this is what you are to her.

 

I recommend you re-read your post and think about it really good of what you want in life. To be treated like a sack of garbage or treated like a human being. To know your worth and know that any other DECENT girl would kill for a guy like you.

 

We live in a terrible time my friend where relationships are worth nothing and materialists are the new "thang" if you like. Do yourself a favor and you be the one who deletes this girl from your life not just social media!

 

If this is truly the story you are telling us you have to absolutely forbid yourself going back or chasing! This is equal to kicking yourself under the belt!

 

Think it through! Like seriously!

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