liverpoolp Posted July 19, 2016 Posted July 19, 2016 Hello all, Just need so advise about my relationship that my ex gf and i had, I will try to keep it short We meet over two years ago and hit it of straight away had amazing times, went out/stayed in done all the thing couples do, we went away to a wedding in Greece out of this world, there was no problems what so ever... I done everything for this girl paid her loans of bought her things that she wanted, even help her out with jobs etc. treated her like the way she wanted to be treated after her up bringing (she is 29 and I am 34). we talked about a family, house and getting married but she never said thank you and appreciated the things i did for her this started to bug me but i still cared for her and helped her, In June this year 2016 it come to a point were i went onto a dating site and talked to people, (but did not go on to meet anyone) everyone vents in there own way, She found out and ended it i was up front with her and said yes i was no liars or anything, we did not talk for 2 weeks, I texted her but no replay, just this week we met up and lunch and she said she went on 2 dates, i could not take this and left, we spoke on the phone and she said a few more things ,and met again 2 days later, it all come out and i found out, she met a lad after a week of splitting up and she went out on her birthday with him and ended up dating again, and lied to my face more then 4 times about things and him, then she wanted to work it out with me (we have to build trust up again and so) next day she rang and said she cant do it, then day after she wantes to, next day she is defending this lad on the phone to me saying its not nice to say things about him?, then she wants to work it out, Then last night she sent me a message saying this is the end of us, and blocked my texts and call and even whats app (she has had me blocked on facebook from june, 3 mins later she got this lad back on facebook after she said she does not want to be with him, she said she does not like him last week and she only went on dates to get back at me? no phone call just one text I know there is more to this man and her, but she will not say, I love this girl to bits and would love to make this work
SevenCity Posted July 19, 2016 Posted July 19, 2016 She: - used you for money - did not show appreciation of your efforts - lied to you multiple times - dated other guys - strung you along Why is it you love her again? 2
johnniewalk Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 I think it is better to ignore her and just spend time to find a girl with kind and good heated..
Larryville Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 I done everything for this girl paid her loans of bought her things that she wanted, even help her out with jobs etc. treated her like the way she wanted to be treated No you didn’t you treated her the way YOU thought she wanted to be treated. Any girl/woman worth a damn would not want to do this (buying her crap) unless you saw her as a prostitute, thinking as many dudes do “I will buy her love and attention” lied to my face more then 4 times about things and him, She actually got to 4 lies You clearly have the problem not her Why is it you love her again? SC he clearly doesn’t know what “love” actually is.
preraph Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 Sounds like a bad and kind of one-sided relationship. Going just by the title of your post, my thought, based on a lifetime of chasing, is unless you just enjoy the chase, the answer to should I chase someone is going to be no. If you have to chase them, it's never going to be a balanced relationship and usually won't even become a relationship. It's a big investment for very little return. This is chaotic and seems like time to move on. Sounds like you both already have to some degree. Good luck.
Mr. Lucky Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 I love this girl to bits and would love to make this work So you can buy her more unappreciated things? So she can lie to you again? So you can be so dissatisfied you're trolling dating websites? Some things happen for a reason. Be grateful she's blocked you and move on... Mr. Lucky
Michelle ma Belle Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 This is very simple...STOP chasing her! Toxic.
Author liverpoolp Posted July 21, 2016 Author Posted July 21, 2016 Thank you all for getting in touch, It was nice reading all the feed back... I did not cheat or tend to do..... Its now been 51 days NC still love her etc, She still un blocked me on whatsapp (is this for me to reach out or she playing games, Also she still has all my family on facebook?
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