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Okay,

 

once again i met someone online hahah... but this one seems really nice.

Anyway she gave me her number but Im only allowed to text it not call it.

And yesterday we were texting and shes like im hungry wanna join me for lunch...

it was really spontaneous out of nowhere.... but we met and it went pretty well i think

good conversation flow and so on.... we even ate desert from the same plate hah

 

anyway at the end she said it was nice to meet me ...... and i guess she wanted to shake hands

but i hugged her and she squeezed me pretty tight ... so i guess thats a good sign..

 

anyway i messaged her right after saying it was nice to meet her and i'd like to do it again if she was interested

 

and she replied saying "ok, yeah it was nice"

 

now i dont know whether i should wait for her to message me or message her to say hello or ask her out

 

she said she wants to take things slow so i dont want to seem like im rushing into things, but i dont want to neglect her or

seem uninterested....

 

how long should i wait before making any other moves???

 

thanks again all of you

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First of all...what do you mean you're only allowed to text her?...weird...Anyway, don't play games. She may be on the other end thinking "when is he going to ask me out again?". I say if you want to talk to someone or ask them out then just do it. Don't waste your time worrying about it. I don't think there is any perfect time to do it. They will either want to go out with you again or they won't

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well thats the thing.. she wants to take things really slow..... and she says TALKING on the phone is a BIG step

 

so thats why i was like hmmm....

 

but i messaged her today just to say hi and she hasnt even replied and she previously replied right away,,, so i dunno

 

ill see what happens

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