Patman89 Posted July 19, 2016 Posted July 19, 2016 My ex split from me 9 months ago and has sort of got in contact and given me some hope, anyone out there too listen and maybe give me some advise?........
Larryville Posted July 19, 2016 Posted July 19, 2016 An ex is an ex for a reason…why is irrelevant. Unless you clearly don’t like or think much of yourself or have no options... avoid.
SevenCity Posted July 19, 2016 Posted July 19, 2016 9 months is a long time. I would let sleeping dogs lie and not contact her (her, yes?) She's probably bored or lonely or needs an ego boost. She didn't contact you for 9 months so that speaks volumes. If she had another guy you likely would not hear from her. The fact you are not over her makes this a terrible idea. The only case in which you should contact her back is if you look at her like a stranger on the street. Move on with your life and find a new girl. There are plenty out there. And a lot better than her. 1
Mr. Lucky Posted July 19, 2016 Posted July 19, 2016 My ex split from me 9 months ago and has sort of got in contact Smoke signals? Incognito FB post? Rock through your window? It would help to understand their intent if you offered some specifics ... Mr. Lucky
Jabron1 Posted July 19, 2016 Posted July 19, 2016 My ex split from me 9 months ago and has sort of got in contact and given me some hope, anyone out there too listen and maybe give me some advise?........ You will have emotionally moved on, and can add her to your options. She can be no more than that. Ignore her, if you can't trust yourself. Move on, one way or the other. Get better. This is about you - not her.
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