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Good question, let me get my popcorn to read the replys .......haha

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You say that, the most popular profile in California, possibly the whole US is a guy whose main pic is of him topless, gratuitously showing off his physique with ridiculous abs, wearing a fireman's uniform (well, the bottom half of it anyway!)

 

I think women verbally protest too much about abs shots. It is not everyone's cup of tea granted, but it will get you results.

 

Not unlike women who post pics, pointing the camera at their cleavage.

 

I saw one woman that had a picture of herself in the pool, just aimed the cam at her boobs and said, "T*t shot!" in the caption. lol. She did have other face shots though, so she was pretty bold.

 

Probably had an inbox full of guys wanting to take her to a cheap hotel though. lol

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Not unlike women who post pics, pointing the camera at their cleavage.

 

I saw one woman that had a picture of herself in the pool, just aimed the cam at her boobs and said, "T*t shot!" in the caption. lol. She did have other face shots though, so she was pretty bold.

 

Probably had an inbox full of guys wanting to take her to a cheap hotel though. lol

 

Cleavage shots aren't so bad as long as it is tastefully done, which for the most part it is (jn my experience).

 

I can't stand bikini pics - they should get slaughtered for that as much as guys do for abs shots. So tacky and attention whoring!

 

Put it away love, you look like an ironing board with a couple of aspirin on it!

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Yeah I would love to hear this too.

 

I'm no adonis, but I reckon I'm better looking than average.

No stupid shirtless pics or sleeze, just real life pics.

Short profile (Ive tried various things).

 

I'd say I match about 1 in 50 tops of my swipes, maybe less.

 

Ladies, if you are matching most of your swipes, but still not having success, you are doing something very wrong. Either you are swiping right way too much, not giving guys a chance, or something else.

 

Of the few matches I do get, most result in decent conversations, and about 1/3 end up in meets.

 

 

This is roughly my experience on tinder as well.

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These responses are so entertaining. Yeah, guys should beware the cleavage shots. Any woman with a pushup bra can get a hot cleavage photo. That's just shameless.

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Cleavage shots aren't so bad as long as it is tastefully done, which for the most part it is (jn my experience).

 

True, depends on the angle. If she's taking it from above her head...then that's where it becomes tasteless.

 

I can't stand bikini pics - they should get slaughtered for that as much as guys do for abs shots. So tacky and attention whoring!

 

Here, it depends...bikini pics are okay if they are taken at the beach, pool side, grotto, etc. Seen a lot of those, esp. in an area where it's hot most of the year.

 

But if it's a bikini pic taken indoors, it looks like she put on the bikini, took a mirror shot, and put it away.

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Lots of guys on tinder try too hard to look seductive or pose and it just makes them look creepy and weird.

 

I find it really suprising how much men don't understand what women really want and the whole PUA community only exarcebetes the problem.

 

Agreed. All I did was use the photos from my Facebook page that received the most likes. None are selfies or portraits. My cover photo is the pic my ex-GF said was her favorite of me.

 

The same could be said for both genders though. WTF is up with women who use a selfie with their ex-BF or even worse, a girlfriend that is much hotter than they are??? About 10-20% of the cover pics are shockingly bad...

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You say that, the most popular profile in California, possibly the whole US is a guy whose main pic is of him topless, gratuitously showing off his physique with ridiculous abs, wearing a fireman's uniform (well, the bottom half of it anyway!)

 

I think women verbally protest too much about abs shots. It is not everyone's cup of tea granted, but it will get you results.

 

Again if you look like a photoshoped Calvin Klein model you can probably do what ever you want. However for anyone else if you are taking selfie's while doing ab crunches it pretty much makes you look like a muppet no matter how great your abs are. There are ways to do this more subtley that work but seems most people go for the show boat approach. I mean for chicks - 6 pics of you doing duck face in front of the mirror showing off your tits is still going to be a no even if they are an epic set. I would rather stab myself in the face with a fork then go on a date with someone where that is the best 6 pics they can come up with. :p

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Again if you look like a photoshoped Calvin Klein model you can probably do what ever you want. However for anyone else if you are taking selfie's while doing ab crunches it pretty much makes you look like a muppet no matter how great your abs are. There are ways to do this more subtley that work but seems most people go for the show boat approach. I mean for chicks - 6 pics of you doing duck face in front of the mirror showing off your tits is still going to be a no even if they are an epic set. I would rather stab myself in the face with a fork then go on a date with someone where that is the best 6 pics they can come up with. :p

 

Honestly, I would love to have a set of abs right now cus I really want to do a comparison check against the results I am getting at the moment. I bet it would be an improvement!

 

Although probably an improvement in numbers, the kind of girl who would swipe right on an ab pic is probably the same girl making 6 duck faces in the mirror. Swings and roundabouts!

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