Manziel Posted July 19, 2016 Posted July 19, 2016 me and this girl (who I really like) have had a long history in a short time (2 years). Ok when we first started talking it seemed like she was really into me (asked for my number, said i'm a great guy, used to talk to me everyday, etc.) Then I called her friend a b*tch and she didn't do anything at first, she just laughed. Then about 2 months after that she turned everybody against me for calling her friend a b*tch, she said they got into a fight over me (idk what about me) but it was bad, it wrecked their friendship for about 3 months. She turned everybody against me and blocked me on everything but she was mad pissed about her 2 friends sticking with me. She said to one of her friends, "It's too late you're already blinded by him, he's a d*ck and he will ruin life" Ouch. Didn't know I hurt her that bad. Anyway, we went 6 months without talking but a month ago she got over it and started talking to me again. She still has blocked on her main social accounts but follows on me on her backups?? So to sum up the last month, we've had some really good talks. Sometimes she really opens up to me and sometimes she doesn't. Sometimes she will punch me while she is swimming and she'll say she was just swimming and smile and go away. She asks me to compare to her to other girls and always assumes I like one of her friends when I don't. I just feel like a lot of games are being played. Recently she asked me my least favorite music genre and started playing it and 2/4 of the occasions we talked she seemed really happy but the other 2 she seemed uninterested. What are your thoughts on this? Advice? What should I do?
NTV Posted July 19, 2016 Posted July 19, 2016 three things: 1) she can't turn folks against you who don't wanna be turned. most folks have a mind of their own 2) b*tch: never call another woman that ever again again unless you're in bed with her and she likes it. learn that lesson as fast as you can. same rule applies to the c word. These words are reserved for women to use against each other. 3) tell her she's playing to many games with you, blocking accounts and gossiping and whatnot, and it's making you lose interest... and then stick to this line. you sound really young, so you're gonna have plenty of chances with other chicks. don't sweat the ones that attract or create drama like this. Good luck! 1
preraph Posted July 19, 2016 Posted July 19, 2016 She sounds like she's only being around you so she can punish you. Nothing good can come of this. Just bail and leave her friends alone too.
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