Stealth3 Posted July 18, 2016 Posted July 18, 2016 Hi all, I broke up with my gf yesterday after finding out that she was living a double life and had another bf in another state that she has been with before she even met me. I dated her for about 4 months and she's been cheating on both me and that guy ever since. I found out by accident what was really going on. Why do I feel so hurt? I should feel like I dodged a bullet by finding out this information when I did vs months or years from now. Yet I feel devastated. Broken...hurt really bad. Finding out her fb which she blocked me from being full of pictures that I took of her from our trips together was devastating. Finding out she lied to me saying she was visiting her friends when in fact she was visiting her bf was even more devastating. After confronting her she started crying and apologizing and begging that I do not tell her bf. I told her bf because he should know and it's the right thing to do. After that she started acting suicidal. She begged me to be her friend. Then she said I don't have to see her but not to tell the guy. Then after I found out I sent him a message, she said she wanted to tell him herself. Then she wanted to find out what I told him...probably so she can avoid telling him the truth. Then when she knew the guy would find out and there was no hope she finally let it go and started claiming she cant live with herself and apologizing non stop. Now there is nothing left and I can try to move on. Hours before I found out, she told me she loved me. I really thought I had a future with this girl. How could she do this...for this long? How do you deal with a situation like this to ease the pain? How do you move on?
WonderKid Posted July 18, 2016 Posted July 18, 2016 I'm going through a breakup now. And not to your level. But I probably don't know if my ex had a guy on the side or not. But to move on I say cut all ties. In my thread the folks gave me pretty solid advice.
Poutrew Posted July 18, 2016 Posted July 18, 2016 How could she do it? She is a sociopath. She is amoral and people exist only to be used by her. Be glad you are rid of her...unless you need Crazy in your otherwise peaceful and stable life. 2
Poutrew Posted July 18, 2016 Posted July 18, 2016 (edited) 10 Characters... Edited July 18, 2016 by Poutrew repeated post
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