Dork Vader Posted July 18, 2016 Posted July 18, 2016 I quit being true to myself in my last relationship in an attempt to keep her happy and meet her needs. It lead to a very dark place in our relationship, one that ultimately ended things between us. Never let go of who you are in a relationship. Further more, pay attention to the signs. I knew there was something off in our relationship but assumed it was other things. 2 weeks before I got dumped my ex exchanged numbers with a guy after an AA meeting right in front of me. I was never very trusting in past relationships so I gave her the benefit of the doubt, despite the fact that she did let me know what was going on. The other big sign was the grin on his face and the look of guilt on hers when she faced me after it happened. She slowly became insecure and even questioned my friendship with a female. She started getting curious about text messages I was receiving and wanted to read them. Not long after she was aloof in the relationship. With in a week we were on a break and a week later I was being dumped. 2 weeks after being dumped I decided to go to an AA meeting and guess who was there? She was with the guy she exchanged numbers with. They were sitting next to each other but I tried to again give her the benefit of the doubt. That was until she started announced that her and some friends were going to the town he is living in to do a Color run at night. Needless to say I called her on the BS. She did the whole O he's just a friend, I don't even want to date right now line. Seeing you was really hard blah blah. The writing was on the wall, I ignored it the entire time. Yes they might have known each other before I had started dating her. But it all looks bad. Either way, rekindling old opposite sex friendships while in a relationship is a no no in my book. Especially the way she went about it. I hope he makes her happy though. I treated her like a queen and the door is absolutely shut forever between me and her now.
gorf Posted July 18, 2016 Posted July 18, 2016 Yes they might have known each other before I had started dating her. But it all looks bad. Either way, rekindling old opposite sex friendships while in a relationship is a no no in my book. Especially the way she went about it.. I agree. Friends are one thing, but this was another. Im sorry for what you went through bro. Being dumped, or dumping her: Im sure you will be happier with someone else, Im sure of it!
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